"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Diss Girl on Birthday

progressive1

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 22, 2007
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
This girl I've been dating is a 7. The only problem is she flaky as hell. I set up a date she makes an excuse. The next day she sends I love u poems to my phone and myspace page. Dis is the 4th time. Her birthday is tommorrow. Should i diss her and tell me to leave me the F#ck alone or wish her happy birthday and forget about the flaky situation another day?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

JackRyanJuan

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2008
Messages
95
Reaction score
3
Location
Now
How long have you been dating her and how do you define dating? I think this affects things a lot. Also, from what you've said, it basically seems like her actions (flaking) are not consistent with her words (love poems, other bs). I would ditch her for someone of higher quality and higher interest level.
 

DonJuan11

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2007
Messages
1,667
Reaction score
35
progressive1 said:
This girl I've been dating is a 7. The only problem is she flaky as hell. I set up a date she makes an excuse. The next day she sends I love u poems to my phone and myspace page. Dis is the 4th time. Her birthday is tommorrow. Should i diss her and tell me to leave me the F#ck alone or wish her happy birthday and forget about the flaky situation another day?
IMHO wish her a happy birthday and that's it. Wait until she contacts you and sets up a date.
 

OrangeCrusader

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 14, 2008
Messages
85
Reaction score
2
If you're gonna be a ****, don't do it on her birthday, at least. Wish her a happy b-day, and deal with it another day, perhaps when she contacts you again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top