"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Diss Girl on Birthday

progressive1

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This girl I've been dating is a 7. The only problem is she flaky as hell. I set up a date she makes an excuse. The next day she sends I love u poems to my phone and myspace page. Dis is the 4th time. Her birthday is tommorrow. Should i diss her and tell me to leave me the F#ck alone or wish her happy birthday and forget about the flaky situation another day?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JackRyanJuan

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How long have you been dating her and how do you define dating? I think this affects things a lot. Also, from what you've said, it basically seems like her actions (flaking) are not consistent with her words (love poems, other bs). I would ditch her for someone of higher quality and higher interest level.
 

DonJuan11

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progressive1 said:
This girl I've been dating is a 7. The only problem is she flaky as hell. I set up a date she makes an excuse. The next day she sends I love u poems to my phone and myspace page. Dis is the 4th time. Her birthday is tommorrow. Should i diss her and tell me to leave me the F#ck alone or wish her happy birthday and forget about the flaky situation another day?
IMHO wish her a happy birthday and that's it. Wait until she contacts you and sets up a date.
 

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If you're gonna be a ****, don't do it on her birthday, at least. Wish her a happy b-day, and deal with it another day, perhaps when she contacts you again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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