"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Diss Girl on Birthday

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This girl I've been dating is a 7. The only problem is she flaky as hell. I set up a date she makes an excuse. The next day she sends I love u poems to my phone and myspace page. Dis is the 4th time. Her birthday is tommorrow. Should i diss her and tell me to leave me the F#ck alone or wish her happy birthday and forget about the flaky situation another day?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How long have you been dating her and how do you define dating? I think this affects things a lot. Also, from what you've said, it basically seems like her actions (flaking) are not consistent with her words (love poems, other bs). I would ditch her for someone of higher quality and higher interest level.
 
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progressive1 said:
This girl I've been dating is a 7. The only problem is she flaky as hell. I set up a date she makes an excuse. The next day she sends I love u poems to my phone and myspace page. Dis is the 4th time. Her birthday is tommorrow. Should i diss her and tell me to leave me the F#ck alone or wish her happy birthday and forget about the flaky situation another day?
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IMHO wish her a happy birthday and that's it. Wait until she contacts you and sets up a date.
 
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If you're gonna be a ****, don't do it on her birthday, at least. Wish her a happy b-day, and deal with it another day, perhaps when she contacts you again.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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