disrespectful women

[Georgepithyou]

If the women is cheating, abusive, disrespectful, your job is not to teach her to stop her behaviour, your job is to leave.

Exactly, it was her fathers responsibility to teach her and install proper values in her.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Exactly, it was her fathers responsibility to teach her and install proper values in her.

Dad may have taught that

 

[Spaz]

In the moment of desperation you will see 2 types of men.

Those who panic and display less then their own average level of performance.

And those who do not lose sight of victory in any situation, and will exhibit 101% - 200% of their normal concentration.

You can spend countless hours honing ur game skills (which is actually really stupid) but nothing can chg a man's core values - tendencies (inherent personality) to act in a certain way in a moment of crisis or danger.

This is something that has already been predetermined at birth.

TALENT.

Either you hv it or you don't.

Focus on ur natural talents, be great at it, and then women that's naturally suited to it will be like moths drawn to light.

Those women will chase, seduce, admire and then come to respect you for ur greatness.

This is also part of leadership, knowing ur limits and the ability to surpass ur limits.

It is all written in ur core values at birth, a gift from heaven or nature to be naturally talented at certain things.

Find it.

 

[wifehunter]

rekt society

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Dad may have taught that

Right? Dad might have taught her to run games on a guy. To cheat on a guy. To use a guy. To control a guy.

 

[wifehunter]

Right? Dad might have taught her to run games on a guy. To cheat on a guy. To use a guy. To control a guy.

or mom

 

[mrgoodstuff]

or mom

True. It can be dad too though. The point is one of their parents could've advised the crazy behavior.

 

[bcude]

I've noticed that in certain relationships the woman disrespects the man and the man for some reason doesn't respond. Is disrespect a sign that she don't see you as someone that can lead/thinks she's superior to her man, the man simply hasn't put his foot down or because the man loves the woman that much?

When a woman gets to that point, do you guys think the relationship is doomed or is it that some men are ok with taking that disrespect?


I find it disturbing ....

On one hand you've a woman who got away with stretching (and crossing) boundaries with the man at some point, and so it continued (snowballed) and you see the result of it. So yes she took the leadership role and she resents him for it since no woman wants that role. She just tests his strength from time to time and hopes to fail in that attempt and to be put back into her place. If she doesn't, you see the result.
Why it happens is lack of self worth, love and societal messages such as "happy wife, happy life", so default mode becomes supplication and taking some unnecessary sh1t just to keep the peace.

They say once disrespect enters, the cat is out of the bag and the relationship is very very hard to salvage from there.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

On one hand you've a woman who got away with stretching (and crossing) boundaries with the man at some point, and so it continued (snowballed) and you see the result of it. So yes she took the leadership role and she resents him for it since no woman wants that role. She just tests his strength from time to time and hopes to fail in that attempt and to be put back into her place. If she doesn't, you see the result.
Why it happens is lack of self worth, love and societal messages such as "happy wife, happy life", so default mode becomes supplication and taking some unnecessary sh1t just to keep the peace.

They say once disrespect enters, the cat is out of the bag and the relationship is very very hard to salvage from there.

Process for recovery? This is a common issue. Someone from the "player" or "swinger" realms must knows how to reattain interest and attraction.

 

[BadBoy89]

Men today have no backbone, are co-dependent and desperate to secure commitment from women. Women on the other hand do not commit to men, they commit to their agenda.

When men become lazy, don’t spin plates and lean on women for emotional support, of course women are going to disrespectful. Why would a woman respect a man who doesn’t respect himself?

Wake up men.

 

[RickTheToad]

They are only disrespectful if you allow them to be. You need them to stay in line and in your frame. The first time they leave, you put their ass back in frame and tell them that you will not tolerate that sh it. You leave if it happens again.

 

[bcude]

Process for recovery? This is a common issue. Someone from the "player" or "swinger" realms must knows how to reattain interest and attraction.

Great question that i can't definately answer because i've no experience doing it. I'm sure it's possible to recover, but time consuming and usually not worth the time and effort since you've already shown that your armor isn't impenetrable by letting her get away with crossing your boundaries so expect much more headache and testing, just like re-visiting old relationships with exes isn't worth the effort. Problem is that the guy who let her disrespect him usually won't change over night and start living in his frame and act correct all of a sudden. Working on himself through space and time along with getting a abundance mentality could shift his mindset the right way.

As soon as he starts showing strong self-respect consistently again, then her interest and attraction can grow back from it, but not the other way around. The only relationship advice a man ever needs is always keeping his self-respect.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Great question that i can't definately answer because i've no experience doing it. I'm sure it's possible to recover, but time consuming and usually not worth the time and effort since you've already shown that your armor isn't impenetrable by letting her get away with crossing your boundaries so expect much more headache and testing, just like re-visiting old relationships with exes isn't worth the effort. Problem is that the guy who let her disrespect him usually won't change over night and start living in his frame and act correct all of a sudden. Working on himself through space and time along with getting a abundance mentality could shift his mindset the right way.

As soon as he starts showing strong self-respect consistently again, then her interest and attraction can grow back from it, but not the other way around. The only relationship advice a man ever needs is always keeping his self-respect.

This sounds great. The reason people don't suggest taking them back is because:
A. She will return to see if you're still stupid.
B. You will likely fall into an old pattern and lose your self respect.

 

[Kotaix]

Usually these things are cumulative over time. A woman starts off small and is allowed to get away with it. It's death by a thousand cuts.

You always have to be able to tell a woman to knock it off or she'll continue to chip away until she's saying horrible **** like that.