Georgepithyou
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Exactly, it was her fathers responsibility to teach her and install proper values in her.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
disrespectful women
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Dad may have taught that
In the moment of desperation you will see 2 types of men.
Those who panic and display less then their own average level of performance.
And those who do not lose sight of victory in any situation, and will exhibit 101% - 200% of their normal concentration.
You can spend countless hours honing ur game skills (which is actually really stupid) but nothing can chg a man's core values - tendencies (inherent personality) to act in a certain way in a moment of crisis or danger.
This is something that has already been predetermined at birth.
TALENT.
Either you hv it or you don't.
Focus on ur natural talents, be great at it, and then women that's naturally suited to it will be like moths drawn to light.
Those women will chase, seduce, admire and then come to respect you for ur greatness.
This is also part of leadership, knowing ur limits and the ability to surpass ur limits.
It is all written in ur core values at birth, a gift from heaven or nature to be naturally talented at certain things.
Find it.
Those who panic and display less then their own average level of performance.
And those who do not lose sight of victory in any situation, and will exhibit 101% - 200% of their normal concentration.
You can spend countless hours honing ur game skills (which is actually really stupid) but nothing can chg a man's core values - tendencies (inherent personality) to act in a certain way in a moment of crisis or danger.
This is something that has already been predetermined at birth.
TALENT.
Either you hv it or you don't.
Focus on ur natural talents, be great at it, and then women that's naturally suited to it will be like moths drawn to light.
Those women will chase, seduce, admire and then come to respect you for ur greatness.
This is also part of leadership, knowing ur limits and the ability to surpass ur limits.
It is all written in ur core values at birth, a gift from heaven or nature to be naturally talented at certain things.
Find it.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
rekt society
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Right? Dad might have taught her to run games on a guy. To cheat on a guy. To use a guy. To control a guy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
or mom
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
True. It can be dad too though. The point is one of their parents could've advised the crazy behavior.
bcude
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On one hand you've a woman who got away with stretching (and crossing) boundaries with the man at some point, and so it continued (snowballed) and you see the result of it. So yes she took the leadership role and she resents him for it since no woman wants that role. She just tests his strength from time to time and hopes to fail in that attempt and to be put back into her place. If she doesn't, you see the result.
Why it happens is lack of self worth, love and societal messages such as "happy wife, happy life", so default mode becomes supplication and taking some unnecessary sh1t just to keep the peace.
They say once disrespect enters, the cat is out of the bag and the relationship is very very hard to salvage from there.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Process for recovery? This is a common issue. Someone from the "player" or "swinger" realms must knows how to reattain interest and attraction.
Men today have no backbone, are co-dependent and desperate to secure commitment from women. Women on the other hand do not commit to men, they commit to their agenda.
When men become lazy, don’t spin plates and lean on women for emotional support, of course women are going to disrespectful. Why would a woman respect a man who doesn’t respect himself?
Wake up men.
When men become lazy, don’t spin plates and lean on women for emotional support, of course women are going to disrespectful. Why would a woman respect a man who doesn’t respect himself?
Wake up men.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RickTheToad
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They are only disrespectful if you allow them to be. You need them to stay in line and in your frame. The first time they leave, you put their ass back in frame and tell them that you will not tolerate that sh it. You leave if it happens again.
bcude
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Great question that i can't definately answer because i've no experience doing it. I'm sure it's possible to recover, but time consuming and usually not worth the time and effort since you've already shown that your armor isn't impenetrable by letting her get away with crossing your boundaries so expect much more headache and testing, just like re-visiting old relationships with exes isn't worth the effort. Problem is that the guy who let her disrespect him usually won't change over night and start living in his frame and act correct all of a sudden. Working on himself through space and time along with getting a abundance mentality could shift his mindset the right way.
As soon as he starts showing strong self-respect consistently again, then her interest and attraction can grow back from it, but not the other way around. The only relationship advice a man ever needs is always keeping his self-respect.
mrgoodstuff
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This sounds great. The reason people don't suggest taking them back is because:
A. She will return to see if you're still stupid.
B. You will likely fall into an old pattern and lose your self respect.
Kotaix
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Usually these things are cumulative over time. A woman starts off small and is allowed to get away with it. It's death by a thousand cuts.
You always have to be able to tell a woman to knock it off or she'll continue to chip away until she's saying horrible **** like that.
You always have to be able to tell a woman to knock it off or she'll continue to chip away until she's saying horrible **** like that.