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Exactly, it was her fathers responsibility to teach her and install proper values in her.If the women is cheating, abusive, disrespectful, your job is not to teach her to stop her behaviour, your job is to leave.
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Exactly, it was her fathers responsibility to teach her and install proper values in her.If the women is cheating, abusive, disrespectful, your job is not to teach her to stop her behaviour, your job is to leave.
Dad may have taught thatExactly, it was her fathers responsibility to teach her and install proper values in her.
Right? Dad might have taught her to run games on a guy. To cheat on a guy. To use a guy. To control a guy.Dad may have taught that
or momRight? Dad might have taught her to run games on a guy. To cheat on a guy. To use a guy. To control a guy.
True. It can be dad too though. The point is one of their parents could've advised the crazy behavior.or mom
On one hand you've a woman who got away with stretching (and crossing) boundaries with the man at some point, and so it continued (snowballed) and you see the result of it. So yes she took the leadership role and she resents him for it since no woman wants that role. She just tests his strength from time to time and hopes to fail in that attempt and to be put back into her place. If she doesn't, you see the result.I've noticed that in certain relationships the woman disrespects the man and the man for some reason doesn't respond. Is disrespect a sign that she don't see you as someone that can lead/thinks she's superior to her man, the man simply hasn't put his foot down or because the man loves the woman that much?
When a woman gets to that point, do you guys think the relationship is doomed or is it that some men are ok with taking that disrespect?
I find it disturbing ....
Process for recovery? This is a common issue. Someone from the "player" or "swinger" realms must knows how to reattain interest and attraction.On one hand you've a woman who got away with stretching (and crossing) boundaries with the man at some point, and so it continued (snowballed) and you see the result of it. So yes she took the leadership role and she resents him for it since no woman wants that role. She just tests his strength from time to time and hopes to fail in that attempt and to be put back into her place. If she doesn't, you see the result.
Why it happens is lack of self worth, love and societal messages such as "happy wife, happy life", so default mode becomes supplication and taking some unnecessary sh1t just to keep the peace.
They say once disrespect enters, the cat is out of the bag and the relationship is very very hard to salvage from there.
Great question that i can't definately answer because i've no experience doing it. I'm sure it's possible to recover, but time consuming and usually not worth the time and effort since you've already shown that your armor isn't impenetrable by letting her get away with crossing your boundaries so expect much more headache and testing, just like re-visiting old relationships with exes isn't worth the effort. Problem is that the guy who let her disrespect him usually won't change over night and start living in his frame and act correct all of a sudden. Working on himself through space and time along with getting a abundance mentality could shift his mindset the right way.Process for recovery? This is a common issue. Someone from the "player" or "swinger" realms must knows how to reattain interest and attraction.
This sounds great. The reason people don't suggest taking them back is because:Great question that i can't definately answer because i've no experience doing it. I'm sure it's possible to recover, but time consuming and usually not worth the time and effort since you've already shown that your armor isn't impenetrable by letting her get away with crossing your boundaries so expect much more headache and testing, just like re-visiting old relationships with exes isn't worth the effort. Problem is that the guy who let her disrespect him usually won't change over night and start living in his frame and act correct all of a sudden. Working on himself through space and time along with getting a abundance mentality could shift his mindset the right way.
As soon as he starts showing strong self-respect consistently again, then her interest and attraction can grow back from it, but not the other way around. The only relationship advice a man ever needs is always keeping his self-respect.