Okay this is a long post, if you have the patience to read it kudos to you.
It all started when a friend of mine and I started dating (Yeah I know big mistake) it started off pretty well, however a couple weeks into it she started complaining how I don't pay enough attention to her. This is because I work as an intern for a baseball team and I told her that I was too busy to call her every day and crap like that.
I was going on a vacation later that week, and before I left a group of us got together the for the last time before I went to the east coast.
This is where she started disrespecting me, the first sign of disrespect was in my car. I was driving to get something to eat and we had her younger cousin in the car. All of a sudden out of no where she starts calling me names for no apparent reason "dumass, idiot, moron" she kept doing it over and over and over. I waited until we got out of the car and I grabbed her hand and said "Don't ever do that **** again." because before we were good friends and she never would do stupid **** like this. My guess is that she wanted to show off to her cousin.
The second sign was we were at my friends house and she continued to treat me like ****, she ignored me, the interest level went way down and I knew that it was pretty much done. Which was fine with me because I didn't want to be treated like a doormat. I tried to call her that night to tell her it wasn't going to work out, but she didn't answer.
The next day I left for vacation, and that night she called me at 12 and said. "Hey, we need to talk. I'll call you back in 15 minutes." 30 minutes later I got pissed so I called her back, she said "Yeah sorry, I'll call you back in 5 minutes" I waited 10, got extremely pissed and called her back and said "We're talking about this now."
We broke it off and that was kick ass, but the next thing I asked was "Did I do anything to piss you off?" and she said "Yeah, well that one time over the phone you called me a lesbian."
I almost broke my phone, I called her that back when we were still friends, she obviously just wanted to find an excuse to break it off with me, and I erupted on her. I called her out on all her bull**** and told her that I would never have thought she'd be capable of disrespecting me like that.
After getting my moneys worth, I hung up the phone. I got back in town yesterday and she IMS and pretends everything is back to normal.
She did not apologize at all....
She was a good friend of mine, but I don't think I can stand being around her anymore. Let this be a lesson to those who think dating friends can work out....it can't. 98% of the time it will end in a bad way.
Please post your comments.
CYJAY
P.S. I'm seeing another girl tonite, I'm stopping by my friends house with her and my ex will probably be there. I can't wait to see her reaction.
It all started when a friend of mine and I started dating (Yeah I know big mistake) it started off pretty well, however a couple weeks into it she started complaining how I don't pay enough attention to her. This is because I work as an intern for a baseball team and I told her that I was too busy to call her every day and crap like that.
I was going on a vacation later that week, and before I left a group of us got together the for the last time before I went to the east coast.
This is where she started disrespecting me, the first sign of disrespect was in my car. I was driving to get something to eat and we had her younger cousin in the car. All of a sudden out of no where she starts calling me names for no apparent reason "dumass, idiot, moron" she kept doing it over and over and over. I waited until we got out of the car and I grabbed her hand and said "Don't ever do that **** again." because before we were good friends and she never would do stupid **** like this. My guess is that she wanted to show off to her cousin.
The second sign was we were at my friends house and she continued to treat me like ****, she ignored me, the interest level went way down and I knew that it was pretty much done. Which was fine with me because I didn't want to be treated like a doormat. I tried to call her that night to tell her it wasn't going to work out, but she didn't answer.
The next day I left for vacation, and that night she called me at 12 and said. "Hey, we need to talk. I'll call you back in 15 minutes." 30 minutes later I got pissed so I called her back, she said "Yeah sorry, I'll call you back in 5 minutes" I waited 10, got extremely pissed and called her back and said "We're talking about this now."
We broke it off and that was kick ass, but the next thing I asked was "Did I do anything to piss you off?" and she said "Yeah, well that one time over the phone you called me a lesbian."
I almost broke my phone, I called her that back when we were still friends, she obviously just wanted to find an excuse to break it off with me, and I erupted on her. I called her out on all her bull**** and told her that I would never have thought she'd be capable of disrespecting me like that.
After getting my moneys worth, I hung up the phone. I got back in town yesterday and she IMS and pretends everything is back to normal.
She did not apologize at all....
She was a good friend of mine, but I don't think I can stand being around her anymore. Let this be a lesson to those who think dating friends can work out....it can't. 98% of the time it will end in a bad way.
Please post your comments.
CYJAY
P.S. I'm seeing another girl tonite, I'm stopping by my friends house with her and my ex will probably be there. I can't wait to see her reaction.
