Last night I was playing drinking games at a friend's house and one of the girls who I had hung out with a few times started calling me a bi*ch. She was like, "why are you being such a bi*ch tonight? you really need to stop being a bi*ch." I don't really understand what she was trying to do. I tried to keep my cool and let it roll off my back by reframing it to myself that she was attracted to me and that she was just "testing me." But after the 3rd or 4th time I calmly asked her if she wanted to meet the back of my hand. That shut her up for 10 minutes, but then she started up again! Should I have just treated her like a brat and told her to sit in timeout instead of saying something kind of violent? What do you guys do when a girl is trying to embarass you in public? I understand that she "won" because I let her get to me, but how do I NOT let her get to me?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Disrespect me
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
tell her to leave you alone.
verbally threatening to abuse her makes you look like a fycking loser
verbally threatening to abuse her makes you look like a fycking loser
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
tell her; "first few times it was funny, but now your getting anoying, PSSSSSTTTTTT!!!!!!
That should shut her up for another 10 minutes
That should shut her up for another 10 minutes
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
I hate it when moles do this. But I have a lovely comeback which certainly puts them in their place. I'll use your case as an example....
"YOU'RE SUCH A *****! YOU GOTTA STOP BEING A *****!
Me: "I may be a *****. You can call me anything you want. But at the end of the day, you're still f*cking ugly" *pleasant smile*
She may get huffy at that moment, but her confidence is sure to be shot from that & she will go quit. Sure to get a few laughs too.
"YOU'RE SUCH A *****! YOU GOTTA STOP BEING A *****!
Me: "I may be a *****. You can call me anything you want. But at the end of the day, you're still f*cking ugly" *pleasant smile*
She may get huffy at that moment, but her confidence is sure to be shot from that & she will go quit. Sure to get a few laughs too.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
yea show her the back of your hand..and you can be shown the backside of metal bars in a small cage.
come on guys, this stuff is basic. a woman knows the worst thing she can do to you is insult your manhood, and calling you a b*tch in front of people is doing so.
you gotta hit her back in her womanhood.
all you gotta say is something like ....
"you are a great example for other women of what happens when you get f*cked and tossed by too many men. Develop some self respect and maybe you'll stop talking like a street hooker."
or
"Honestly, the only women I've ever known who behave the way you are behaving have been sluts who have no self respect. Move on honey, I don't bang white trash" (assuming she's white)
anyway, any various that basically calls her a slut will send her reeling. She'll probably explode in explatives towards you, to which you keep hammering your point home "listen. get you're sh*t under control. Don't go all ballistic on me just becuase you've banged every tom **** and harry and have no self respect left."
J
you gotta hit her back in her womanhood.
all you gotta say is something like ....
"you are a great example for other women of what happens when you get f*cked and tossed by too many men. Develop some self respect and maybe you'll stop talking like a street hooker."
or
"Honestly, the only women I've ever known who behave the way you are behaving have been sluts who have no self respect. Move on honey, I don't bang white trash" (assuming she's white)
anyway, any various that basically calls her a slut will send her reeling. She'll probably explode in explatives towards you, to which you keep hammering your point home "listen. get you're sh*t under control. Don't go all ballistic on me just becuase you've banged every tom **** and harry and have no self respect left."
J
BackToTheMack
Senior Don Juan
You are a f**king b*tch if you are stupid enough to threaten physical vilonce against a girl atleast have the f**king balls to follow through..... B*TCH
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
JaguarMike
Don Juan
As I see it,
she is either Immature and is trying to test you in the stupidest way I can think of... I forgot who said it but throw it back at her verbally, don't threat physical harm because she will expect you to follow through, and will provoke you until you do hit her, so just don't name physical harm at all (this girl seems like trouble... how old are you?)
or she is a piece of garbage and knows you aren't garbage and is going to provoke you for being happy.
I've been in both situations and I dropped both girls, be cautious, these types of girls are the ones who will make your life hell if you don't send them there first.
she is either Immature and is trying to test you in the stupidest way I can think of... I forgot who said it but throw it back at her verbally, don't threat physical harm because she will expect you to follow through, and will provoke you until you do hit her, so just don't name physical harm at all (this girl seems like trouble... how old are you?)
or she is a piece of garbage and knows you aren't garbage and is going to provoke you for being happy.
I've been in both situations and I dropped both girls, be cautious, these types of girls are the ones who will make your life hell if you don't send them there first.
You would have been in a much better situation if you would have said that out loud what you thought deep inside. In every action there is a natural reaction. You could have turned the tables on her and made her seem like the fool.
Her: "why are you being such a bi*ch tonight? you really need to stop being a bi*ch."
You: Why do you like me so much?? instead of being a little girl why don't you really tell me how much you like me???
Her: " wtf! I don't like you, you are a b1tch"
You: Then why don't you leave me alone if you don't like me?? last girl that called me a b1tch I ended up having sex with her!! continue this behaviour and everyone will know what you really want!!!!
Her: Whatever!! (deep down she will be thinking how the fvck you were able to twist this around and use her words against her!!lol)
Words are like weapons. Know how to disarm your enemies and use their own words against them.
holy shi*t Djdamage that's an awesome idea. turning the tables like that and demonstrating my control by accusing her of wanting to sleep with me. i really need to work on just expressing what i feel instead of ignoring or threatening. thanks dude
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
BackToTheMack
Senior Don Juan
If your going to keep talking like a b*tch i'll slap you like a B*tch
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
lol, classic.