Last night I was playing drinking games at a friend's house and one of the girls who I had hung out with a few times started calling me a bi*ch. She was like, "why are you being such a bi*ch tonight? you really need to stop being a bi*ch." I don't really understand what she was trying to do. I tried to keep my cool and let it roll off my back by reframing it to myself that she was attracted to me and that she was just "testing me." But after the 3rd or 4th time I calmly asked her if she wanted to meet the back of my hand. That shut her up for 10 minutes, but then she started up again! Should I have just treated her like a brat and told her to sit in timeout instead of saying something kind of violent? What do you guys do when a girl is trying to embarass you in public? I understand that she "won" because I let her get to me, but how do I NOT let her get to me?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Disrespect me
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
tell her to leave you alone.
verbally threatening to abuse her makes you look like a fycking loser
verbally threatening to abuse her makes you look like a fycking loser
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
tell her; "first few times it was funny, but now your getting anoying, PSSSSSTTTTTT!!!!!!
That should shut her up for another 10 minutes
That should shut her up for another 10 minutes
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
I hate it when moles do this. But I have a lovely comeback which certainly puts them in their place. I'll use your case as an example....
"YOU'RE SUCH A *****! YOU GOTTA STOP BEING A *****!
Me: "I may be a *****. You can call me anything you want. But at the end of the day, you're still f*cking ugly" *pleasant smile*
She may get huffy at that moment, but her confidence is sure to be shot from that & she will go quit. Sure to get a few laughs too.
"YOU'RE SUCH A *****! YOU GOTTA STOP BEING A *****!
Me: "I may be a *****. You can call me anything you want. But at the end of the day, you're still f*cking ugly" *pleasant smile*
She may get huffy at that moment, but her confidence is sure to be shot from that & she will go quit. Sure to get a few laughs too.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
yea show her the back of your hand..and you can be shown the backside of metal bars in a small cage.
come on guys, this stuff is basic. a woman knows the worst thing she can do to you is insult your manhood, and calling you a b*tch in front of people is doing so.
you gotta hit her back in her womanhood.
all you gotta say is something like ....
"you are a great example for other women of what happens when you get f*cked and tossed by too many men. Develop some self respect and maybe you'll stop talking like a street hooker."
or
"Honestly, the only women I've ever known who behave the way you are behaving have been sluts who have no self respect. Move on honey, I don't bang white trash" (assuming she's white)
anyway, any various that basically calls her a slut will send her reeling. She'll probably explode in explatives towards you, to which you keep hammering your point home "listen. get you're sh*t under control. Don't go all ballistic on me just becuase you've banged every tom **** and harry and have no self respect left."
J
you gotta hit her back in her womanhood.
all you gotta say is something like ....
"you are a great example for other women of what happens when you get f*cked and tossed by too many men. Develop some self respect and maybe you'll stop talking like a street hooker."
or
"Honestly, the only women I've ever known who behave the way you are behaving have been sluts who have no self respect. Move on honey, I don't bang white trash" (assuming she's white)
anyway, any various that basically calls her a slut will send her reeling. She'll probably explode in explatives towards you, to which you keep hammering your point home "listen. get you're sh*t under control. Don't go all ballistic on me just becuase you've banged every tom **** and harry and have no self respect left."
J
BackToTheMack
Senior Don Juan
You are a f**king b*tch if you are stupid enough to threaten physical vilonce against a girl atleast have the f**king balls to follow through..... B*TCH
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
JaguarMike
Don Juan
As I see it,
she is either Immature and is trying to test you in the stupidest way I can think of... I forgot who said it but throw it back at her verbally, don't threat physical harm because she will expect you to follow through, and will provoke you until you do hit her, so just don't name physical harm at all (this girl seems like trouble... how old are you?)
or she is a piece of garbage and knows you aren't garbage and is going to provoke you for being happy.
I've been in both situations and I dropped both girls, be cautious, these types of girls are the ones who will make your life hell if you don't send them there first.
she is either Immature and is trying to test you in the stupidest way I can think of... I forgot who said it but throw it back at her verbally, don't threat physical harm because she will expect you to follow through, and will provoke you until you do hit her, so just don't name physical harm at all (this girl seems like trouble... how old are you?)
or she is a piece of garbage and knows you aren't garbage and is going to provoke you for being happy.
I've been in both situations and I dropped both girls, be cautious, these types of girls are the ones who will make your life hell if you don't send them there first.
You would have been in a much better situation if you would have said that out loud what you thought deep inside. In every action there is a natural reaction. You could have turned the tables on her and made her seem like the fool.
Her: "why are you being such a bi*ch tonight? you really need to stop being a bi*ch."
You: Why do you like me so much?? instead of being a little girl why don't you really tell me how much you like me???
Her: " wtf! I don't like you, you are a b1tch"
You: Then why don't you leave me alone if you don't like me?? last girl that called me a b1tch I ended up having sex with her!! continue this behaviour and everyone will know what you really want!!!!
Her: Whatever!! (deep down she will be thinking how the fvck you were able to twist this around and use her words against her!!lol)
Words are like weapons. Know how to disarm your enemies and use their own words against them.
holy shi*t Djdamage that's an awesome idea. turning the tables like that and demonstrating my control by accusing her of wanting to sleep with me. i really need to work on just expressing what i feel instead of ignoring or threatening. thanks dude
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BackToTheMack
Senior Don Juan
If your going to keep talking like a b*tch i'll slap you like a B*tch
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
lol, classic.