"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A friend was telling me this about his friend.

when this guy started dating or met a new girl, he would check her movie collection to see if she had Disney movies like "Snow White", "Cinderella", "Sleeping Beauty", etc.

If she did, he'd automatically cross her off the list because the woman is looking for Prince Charming and is impossible to satisfy.

Is it the DJ way to be that Prince Charming, or not?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No, don't TRY be HER prince charming.
BE the prince charming that YOU can be.
 
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A girl with ANY Disney titles in her movie collection is an automatic NEXT.

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
A girl with ANY Disney titles in her movie collection is an automatic NEXT.

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I was thinking that in some ways, but when thinking abuot that, every girl I've ever met has always been a huge Disney fan. Huge.

No, don't TRY be HER prince charming.
BE the prince charming that YOU can be.QUOTE]

that's what I meant. good call.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
A girl with ANY Disney titles in her movie collection is an automatic NEXT.
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Well you know, not all Disney titles are bad. If I found out that a girl had some of the early Disney titles from the 30s to the 60s, heck, that would raise my IL, since I'm somewhat of a (vintage) cartoon fan.
 
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The dude can't compete with a cartoon????!!!!:confused:
 
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You guys are right and wrong, almost all girls grew up eating disney propaganda and it most probably ****ed all of them up, but nexting them is like cutting off your head to cure a headache, because ALL women are ****ed up.
 
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Many guys have magazines and posters featuring airbrushed and cosmetically-enhanced models, but does that mean they can't be satisfied by a real woman?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Originally posted by Jariel
Many guys have magazines and posters featuring airbrushed and cosmetically-enhanced models, but does that mean they can't be satisfied by a real woman?
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Actually, in some cases, yes.

SPEEDRUNNER: Damn, you beat me to it.

Perhaps I should rephrase my previous post:

A girl with ANY Disney titles in her movie collection is an automatic head case. She will be crazy in bed (assuming Uncle Joe didn't rape her at age 7), but she will also be crazy out of bed.

OR

A girl with ANY Disney titles in her movie collection wasn't as clever as she thought she was when she said, "Kids? Me? No I don't have any children,..."
 
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