"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Disappointment

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bob S

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It really means she was disappointed in herself for choosing the wrong type of guys. What she perceived as a great guy turned out not to be. By telling you shes been so disappointed she's covertly seeking you to reassure her you won't disappoint her (that's if you are thinking of dating her). To even be naive to see that they were not great guys from the start may show she has some self esteem issues.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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I've never had any come right out and say this is what you do that disappoints me, But I've had enough women tell me that I'm not very romantic. :D
You do surprise me Howie :D
It really means she was disappointed in herself for choosing the wrong type of guys. What she perceived as a great guy turned out not to be. By telling you shes been so disappointed she's covertly seeking you to reassure her you won't disappoint her (that's if you are thinking of dating her). To even be naive to see that they were not great guys from the start may show she has some self esteem issues.
I agree about the dating wrong guys thing. But the self esteem thing.... meh, we've all made unwise choices in our time. That's more often to do with naivete than self esteem though, probably. I've certainly been disappointed myself a few times. Two sides of the same coin.
 

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lol thanks Monkey, I just busted out laughing. Good thing I'm not in charge of creating Valentines Day cards for Hallmark :D
 

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lol thanks Monkey, I just busted out laughing. Good thing I'm not in charge of creating Valentines Day cards for Hallmark :D
See, we can be friends ;) (NH) We just reading from different pages of the same book <3 :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Another professional victim.................... looking for Mr Right......but shes Mrs Wrong
 

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Another professional victim.................... looking for Mr Right......but shes Mrs Wrong
Fantastic attitude towards life, son. Stick to over texting those goopy online girls.
 

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Good luck with daddy issues you'll get probably 4 months of her worshipping ya, then you can send me an unhappy face emoji.........Son
 

lizardking82

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I go with @Dingo here all day and all night. A woman who tells you "I got dissapointed", meh, she lost my interest already. Why do I care about that? She starts of negatively? Telling you "I don't want you to pressure me"? She probably some snowflake who thinks the world is mean to her and she deserves someone to caress her and her insecurities and lack of luck in life and IF/WHEN she gets that, she will probably cheat on him. I mean, I just cannot stand these women. Negative energy.

A girl told me just tonight "You remind me of my ex boyfriend kinda". Gone LOL no time for useless drama and comparisons and expectations.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lizardking82

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It really means she was disappointed in herself for choosing the wrong type of guys. What she perceived as a great guy turned out not to be. By telling you shes been so disappointed she's covertly seeking you to reassure her you won't disappoint her (that's if you are thinking of dating her). To even be naive to see that they were not great guys from the start may show she has some self esteem issues.
Add to that a poor choice making, too. They make the wrong choices and call it dissapointment to get the blame off their shoulders and feel better about themselves LOL

I mean, wrong choice making is not a crime, but dwelling on it shows your emotionally weak and probably a bunch of trouble ahead and hypersensitive to whatever she perceives as "dissapointing, wrong".
 
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