"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Disappointment
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheMonkeyKing
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You do surprise me HowieI've never had any come right out and say this is what you do that disappoints me, But I've had enough women tell me that I'm not very romantic.
I agree about the dating wrong guys thing. But the self esteem thing.... meh, we've all made unwise choices in our time. That's more often to do with naivete than self esteem though, probably. I've certainly been disappointed myself a few times. Two sides of the same coin.
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See, we can be friendslol thanks Monkey, I just busted out laughing. Good thing I'm not in charge of creating Valentines Day cards for Hallmark
(NH) We just reading from different pages of the same book <3 "She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Prenup.
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Fantastic attitude towards life, son. Stick to over texting those goopy online girls.
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A girl told me just tonight "You remind me of my ex boyfriend kinda". Gone LOL no time for useless drama and comparisons and expectations.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Add to that a poor choice making, too. They make the wrong choices and call it dissapointment to get the blame off their shoulders and feel better about themselves LOL
I mean, wrong choice making is not a crime, but dwelling on it shows your emotionally weak and probably a bunch of trouble ahead and hypersensitive to whatever she perceives as "dissapointing, wrong".