"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Disabling audio recording notification on Android to record approaches

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For me at least it's difficult to pay attention to an approach while also taking mental notes of whatever mistakes I am making, e.g. talking too fast, saying something off-putting, whatever.

It occured to me that I could record audio on my phone and review the recording afterwards. The issue with this is that on my Android there's a big bright symbol in the notification bar to indicate that audio is being recorded. Obviously a big problem if I hand my phone to a girl to put her number in and she notices.

I've tried googling for solutions but to no avail. I couldn't find an app that doesn't do this and disabling the apps' notifications in settings doesn't help either, the apps just refuse to record, even the third party ones.

One of you guys must've experienced this same issue so I hope I'll get a solution here. If not, I guess I'll have to get an indepandant audio recorder. Feel free to drop the solution for iOS also, in case someone with an iPhone is running into the same difficulties.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I wouldn't recommend self-recording your own approaches.

In most of those YouTube videos where approaches are recorded, it is mostly a secondary person doing the recording.

Keep your Android phone. Go out and make approaches. Only collect contact info after she agrees to an actual first date plan with you. Getting a woman's phone number without an actual date plan in place is worthless.
 

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Why? To be clear, I only want to record audio, not video.
It is more hassle than it is worth.

Additionally, recording audio without video isn't as helpful as the video/audio combination provides a more comprehensive view of the entire communication process. Audio alone recordings don't add a lot of value.
 

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There is like programs and root kits or whatever you call them, out there, that when installed on a rooted device record everything. Record the mic, camera, calls, messages, passwords, etc, and everything is stored for you on a web page. People install these for themselves to have record of all calls, usually. I don't know the name, but this could be a direction for your research. In the end, you'd get a phone that can be setup to record surroundings, basically.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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