Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Disabling audio recording notification on Android to record approaches

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For me at least it's difficult to pay attention to an approach while also taking mental notes of whatever mistakes I am making, e.g. talking too fast, saying something off-putting, whatever.

It occured to me that I could record audio on my phone and review the recording afterwards. The issue with this is that on my Android there's a big bright symbol in the notification bar to indicate that audio is being recorded. Obviously a big problem if I hand my phone to a girl to put her number in and she notices.

I've tried googling for solutions but to no avail. I couldn't find an app that doesn't do this and disabling the apps' notifications in settings doesn't help either, the apps just refuse to record, even the third party ones.

One of you guys must've experienced this same issue so I hope I'll get a solution here. If not, I guess I'll have to get an indepandant audio recorder. Feel free to drop the solution for iOS also, in case someone with an iPhone is running into the same difficulties.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I wouldn't recommend self-recording your own approaches.

In most of those YouTube videos where approaches are recorded, it is mostly a secondary person doing the recording.

Keep your Android phone. Go out and make approaches. Only collect contact info after she agrees to an actual first date plan with you. Getting a woman's phone number without an actual date plan in place is worthless.
 

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Why? To be clear, I only want to record audio, not video.
It is more hassle than it is worth.

Additionally, recording audio without video isn't as helpful as the video/audio combination provides a more comprehensive view of the entire communication process. Audio alone recordings don't add a lot of value.
 

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There is like programs and root kits or whatever you call them, out there, that when installed on a rooted device record everything. Record the mic, camera, calls, messages, passwords, etc, and everything is stored for you on a web page. People install these for themselves to have record of all calls, usually. I don't know the name, but this could be a direction for your research. In the end, you'd get a phone that can be setup to record surroundings, basically.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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