"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Direct Openers

Krassus

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For me, this is where it's at :) Direct / natural game is by far my favorite style, as it's absolutely congruent with the personality of a confident and honest man. Here's a direct opener i just came up with, and i'll post more in the future.

Outfit Compliment Opener
Me: Hey, i just wanted to say that your outfit looks gorgeous :)
Her: Aww, thank you!! :)
Me: You're welcome :) I mean it, you know. I don't usually spend my spare time walking around and complimenting chicks on their clothing :D But i just love what you're wearing. The style, the color selection, everything. Between me and you, i think that style really shows off a person's personality, so when i saw you, i knew i just had to get to know you. I'm Krassus by the way :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Krassus

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Bvbidd said:
Aren't you the guy who insists that people mock him not because he's a dork, but because they're "jealous of his superior Star Wars knowledge." Shut the FVCK up grease-hair :D
 

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Krassus said:
Aren't you the guy who insists that people mock him not because he's a dork, but because they're "jealous of his superior Star Wars knowledge." Shut the FVCK up grease-hair :D
That was me being sarcastic making fun of people like you. Go look at the post again baby eater.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"I love the outfit. The shoes, the shirt, the skirt, the hair, the shoes have to go, but everything else looks great!"
 

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hi I like your outfit but my is so much better

or

hi I like your outfit but the lady down their has the same outfit on
 

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It sounds like your supplicating. "oh really you have the bestest outfit and I don't normally tell gurls that."

My DJ brotha I agree that direct/ natural game is the crack that turns women, ho's, and girls into fiends, but I think that keeping it a bit simpler would be better.

I'm direct as hell and it doesn't always work, but if a chick matches my energy level (frequency) she's mine.

All I do is talk shyt and I'm a goof ball that has lot's of sex, so I know you cool alpha DJ's should be able to do the same with even less work.
 
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