Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Direct Openers

Krassus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2003
Messages
1,386
Reaction score
17
Location
Here
For me, this is where it's at :) Direct / natural game is by far my favorite style, as it's absolutely congruent with the personality of a confident and honest man. Here's a direct opener i just came up with, and i'll post more in the future.

Outfit Compliment Opener
Me: Hey, i just wanted to say that your outfit looks gorgeous :)
Her: Aww, thank you!! :)
Me: You're welcome :) I mean it, you know. I don't usually spend my spare time walking around and complimenting chicks on their clothing :D But i just love what you're wearing. The style, the color selection, everything. Between me and you, i think that style really shows off a person's personality, so when i saw you, i knew i just had to get to know you. I'm Krassus by the way :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Krassus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2003
Messages
1,386
Reaction score
17
Location
Here
Bvbidd said:
Aren't you the guy who insists that people mock him not because he's a dork, but because they're "jealous of his superior Star Wars knowledge." Shut the FVCK up grease-hair :D
 

Bvbidd

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2006
Messages
1,482
Reaction score
8
Krassus said:
Aren't you the guy who insists that people mock him not because he's a dork, but because they're "jealous of his superior Star Wars knowledge." Shut the FVCK up grease-hair :D
That was me being sarcastic making fun of people like you. Go look at the post again baby eater.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

B-Lemond

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 9, 2005
Messages
1,007
Reaction score
10
Location
On The Road to Self-Improvement
"I love the outfit. The shoes, the shirt, the skirt, the hair, the shoes have to go, but everything else looks great!"
 

Blackdragon5095

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2005
Messages
453
Reaction score
6
hi I like your outfit but my is so much better

or

hi I like your outfit but the lady down their has the same outfit on
 

SELF-MASTERY

Banned
Joined
Dec 15, 2004
Messages
1,971
Reaction score
7
It sounds like your supplicating. "oh really you have the bestest outfit and I don't normally tell gurls that."

My DJ brotha I agree that direct/ natural game is the crack that turns women, ho's, and girls into fiends, but I think that keeping it a bit simpler would be better.

I'm direct as hell and it doesn't always work, but if a chick matches my energy level (frequency) she's mine.

All I do is talk shyt and I'm a goof ball that has lot's of sex, so I know you cool alpha DJ's should be able to do the same with even less work.
 
Top