"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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For me, this is where it's at :) Direct / natural game is by far my favorite style, as it's absolutely congruent with the personality of a confident and honest man. Here's a direct opener i just came up with, and i'll post more in the future.

Outfit Compliment Opener
Me: Hey, i just wanted to say that your outfit looks gorgeous :)
Her: Aww, thank you!! :)
Me: You're welcome :) I mean it, you know. I don't usually spend my spare time walking around and complimenting chicks on their clothing :D But i just love what you're wearing. The style, the color selection, everything. Between me and you, i think that style really shows off a person's personality, so when i saw you, i knew i just had to get to know you. I'm Krassus by the way :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bvbidd said:
Creepy.
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Aren't you the guy who insists that people mock him not because he's a dork, but because they're "jealous of his superior Star Wars knowledge." Shut the FVCK up grease-hair :D
 
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Krassus said:
Aren't you the guy who insists that people mock him not because he's a dork, but because they're "jealous of his superior Star Wars knowledge." Shut the FVCK up grease-hair :D
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That was me being sarcastic making fun of people like you. Go look at the post again baby eater.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"I love the outfit. The shoes, the shirt, the skirt, the hair, the shoes have to go, but everything else looks great!"
 
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hi I like your outfit but my is so much better

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hi I like your outfit but the lady down their has the same outfit on
 
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It sounds like your supplicating. "oh really you have the bestest outfit and I don't normally tell gurls that."

My DJ brotha I agree that direct/ natural game is the crack that turns women, ho's, and girls into fiends, but I think that keeping it a bit simpler would be better.

I'm direct as hell and it doesn't always work, but if a chick matches my energy level (frequency) she's mine.

All I do is talk shyt and I'm a goof ball that has lot's of sex, so I know you cool alpha DJ's should be able to do the same with even less work.
 
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