"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Direct Openers

Krassus

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For me, this is where it's at :) Direct / natural game is by far my favorite style, as it's absolutely congruent with the personality of a confident and honest man. Here's a direct opener i just came up with, and i'll post more in the future.

Outfit Compliment Opener
Me: Hey, i just wanted to say that your outfit looks gorgeous :)
Her: Aww, thank you!! :)
Me: You're welcome :) I mean it, you know. I don't usually spend my spare time walking around and complimenting chicks on their clothing :D But i just love what you're wearing. The style, the color selection, everything. Between me and you, i think that style really shows off a person's personality, so when i saw you, i knew i just had to get to know you. I'm Krassus by the way :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Krassus

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Bvbidd said:
Aren't you the guy who insists that people mock him not because he's a dork, but because they're "jealous of his superior Star Wars knowledge." Shut the FVCK up grease-hair :D
 

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Krassus said:
Aren't you the guy who insists that people mock him not because he's a dork, but because they're "jealous of his superior Star Wars knowledge." Shut the FVCK up grease-hair :D
That was me being sarcastic making fun of people like you. Go look at the post again baby eater.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I love the outfit. The shoes, the shirt, the skirt, the hair, the shoes have to go, but everything else looks great!"
 

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hi I like your outfit but my is so much better

or

hi I like your outfit but the lady down their has the same outfit on
 

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It sounds like your supplicating. "oh really you have the bestest outfit and I don't normally tell gurls that."

My DJ brotha I agree that direct/ natural game is the crack that turns women, ho's, and girls into fiends, but I think that keeping it a bit simpler would be better.

I'm direct as hell and it doesn't always work, but if a chick matches my energy level (frequency) she's mine.

All I do is talk shyt and I'm a goof ball that has lot's of sex, so I know you cool alpha DJ's should be able to do the same with even less work.
 
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