"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Direct IOI.

Slash Dolo

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So I'm going out of town in a week. I need a dogsitter while I'm away. Coincidentally I ask this cute girl on Facebook if she'd be down and I'd pay her and blah blah. She not only says yes, but says she'll do it for free. I insist on paying her something, and she responds with "Hahah how aboutttt instead of paying me, you do me a favor in return?"

This seems like the most obvious IOI I've gotten in a while. The fact that she wants to do this for free is another, as it's a 6-7 hour thing.

Have you guys gotten any really obvious IOIs recently? If so, please share.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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VladPatton

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Where's the favor??? You don't just agree without knowing what she wants. You're thinking sex, and she thinking you do her laundry for the next 6 months.
 

Slash Dolo

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Ruler said:
Make sure she's not asking you to digsit in return :crackup:

Nah though, it sounds good. Tell her it depends what she needs, or something funny I'm sure you know what to write.
Yup. I actually haven't agreed to the favor yet, so I'll be sure to play it off correctly lol.
 

marmel75

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Tell her she'll have to do more than watch your dog to get your pants off, she'll need to wine and dine you! Lmao
 
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