"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Direct IOI.

Slash Dolo

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So I'm going out of town in a week. I need a dogsitter while I'm away. Coincidentally I ask this cute girl on Facebook if she'd be down and I'd pay her and blah blah. She not only says yes, but says she'll do it for free. I insist on paying her something, and she responds with "Hahah how aboutttt instead of paying me, you do me a favor in return?"

This seems like the most obvious IOI I've gotten in a while. The fact that she wants to do this for free is another, as it's a 6-7 hour thing.

Have you guys gotten any really obvious IOIs recently? If so, please share.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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VladPatton

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Where's the favor??? You don't just agree without knowing what she wants. You're thinking sex, and she thinking you do her laundry for the next 6 months.
 

Slash Dolo

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Ruler said:
Make sure she's not asking you to digsit in return :crackup:

Nah though, it sounds good. Tell her it depends what she needs, or something funny I'm sure you know what to write.
Yup. I actually haven't agreed to the favor yet, so I'll be sure to play it off correctly lol.
 

marmel75

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Tell her she'll have to do more than watch your dog to get your pants off, she'll need to wine and dine you! Lmao
 
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