"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Direct Approaching in class

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I'm enrolled in this art class at my extended high school(junoir college),and there is this hb8,cute & innocent that I'm gonna meet her by the end of the semester. I'm a no B.S. guy,if I think it,I say it. Has anyone ever direct approached a chick from class? I have direct approached chicks at work & while shopping w/ good results,just wondering if works in college. I'm just gonna pull her aside,tell her she is pretty darn cute and introduce myself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt said:
I'm just gonna pull her aside,tell her she is pretty darn cute and introduce myself.
Do not tell her you think she's good looking straight away like that. That sh1t never works. You should know that :D
 

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Class is almost my sole area of approaching, which is a pretty bad habbit. Of course, this includes my future classes as I number-closed a rather fine Jewish chick at the college I'm planning to attend next year ($21k a year scholarship :rockon: ) It was hilarious because my dad winged by keeping her mum busy. He was at first very against the community but now that he's seeing results, I think he's become less antagonistic.

When it comes down to girls in my class, I've really only had a few successful interactions within the last two and a half months (when I started using what I learned in my life and quit being a KJ). One of which has a boyfriend who I openly ignore taught me the power of kino. Wow, I love kino. It makes me feel in charge, powerful, manly, and let's me go wild. I've used one of Style's method for burning kino resistance three times now, always with very positive reactions: laughter, smiles, play hitting, and more kino.

My diet is mostly of girls outside of class. My plates include a great variety of exchange students and underclassmen. It's great practice, and when I do make approaches outside of school, the success I've had in school gives me the confidence I need to succeed.

Ever since I first clicked the link to sosuave.com, I've felt like Harry Potter. I now live in a new world where I can use the magic that I've always had somewhere deep inside to capture the hearts and anything else I want from nearly any girl I want. It's an empowering feeling, and the journey has just begun.
 

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stinkyape said:
Do not tell her you think she's good looking straight away like that. That sh1t never works. You should know that :D
You'd be shocked,as long as you are a man about it you can get away with it. Back straight,look well groomed and don't stutter.

Imagine this if you will,you just chilling minding your own business and this hb(decent looking) approaches you, "Hey,your pretty damn hot,what your name?". Now don't tell me you wouldn't be willing to talk to her.
 

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@ Samri72,

What did you say/do to pull these chicks?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You'd probably have better success by sitting by/near them and chatting them up a little before you go in for the kill. Of course, it's not always possible to change seats in a class.
 

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Obsidian said:
You'd probably have better success by sitting by/near them and chatting them up a little before you go in for the kill. Of course, it's not always possible to change seats in a class.
I thought about that. She sits in the front,I mean literally right in front of the teacher. I enjoy reading my Porsche magazines in the back of the class w/o the teacher saying anything and I would like to keep it that way!
 

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blinkwatt said:
You'd be shocked,as long as you are a man about it you can get away with it. Back straight,look well groomed and don't stutter.

Imagine this if you will,you just chilling minding your own business and this hb(decent looking) approaches you, "Hey,your pretty damn hot,what your name?". Now don't tell me you wouldn't be willing to talk to her.
Fair enough. Admittedly I've never tried outright telling a girl "I think you are hot" upfront - I've just read that it doesn't work, and taken it at face value :D

...Perhaps it's because I'm spectacularly ugly :D
 

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If you're a hot guy, that approach works pretty well actually. It's kind of like a "you're hot, I'm hot, let's ****" type of thing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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