I'm enrolled in this art class at my extended high school(junoir college),and there is this hb8,cute & innocent that I'm gonna meet her by the end of the semester. I'm a no B.S. guy,if I think it,I say it. Has anyone ever direct approached a chick from class? I have direct approached chicks at work & while shopping w/ good results,just wondering if works in college. I'm just gonna pull her aside,tell her she is pretty darn cute and introduce myself.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Direct Approaching in class
- Thread starter blinkwatt
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SamRi72
Don Juan
Class is almost my sole area of approaching, which is a pretty bad habbit. Of course, this includes my future classes as I number-closed a rather fine Jewish chick at the college I'm planning to attend next year ($21k a year scholarship :rockon: ) It was hilarious because my dad winged by keeping her mum busy. He was at first very against the community but now that he's seeing results, I think he's become less antagonistic.
When it comes down to girls in my class, I've really only had a few successful interactions within the last two and a half months (when I started using what I learned in my life and quit being a KJ). One of which has a boyfriend who I openly ignore taught me the power of kino. Wow, I love kino. It makes me feel in charge, powerful, manly, and let's me go wild. I've used one of Style's method for burning kino resistance three times now, always with very positive reactions: laughter, smiles, play hitting, and more kino.
My diet is mostly of girls outside of class. My plates include a great variety of exchange students and underclassmen. It's great practice, and when I do make approaches outside of school, the success I've had in school gives me the confidence I need to succeed.
Ever since I first clicked the link to sosuave.com, I've felt like Harry Potter. I now live in a new world where I can use the magic that I've always had somewhere deep inside to capture the hearts and anything else I want from nearly any girl I want. It's an empowering feeling, and the journey has just begun.
When it comes down to girls in my class, I've really only had a few successful interactions within the last two and a half months (when I started using what I learned in my life and quit being a KJ). One of which has a boyfriend who I openly ignore taught me the power of kino. Wow, I love kino. It makes me feel in charge, powerful, manly, and let's me go wild. I've used one of Style's method for burning kino resistance three times now, always with very positive reactions: laughter, smiles, play hitting, and more kino.
My diet is mostly of girls outside of class. My plates include a great variety of exchange students and underclassmen. It's great practice, and when I do make approaches outside of school, the success I've had in school gives me the confidence I need to succeed.
Ever since I first clicked the link to sosuave.com, I've felt like Harry Potter. I now live in a new world where I can use the magic that I've always had somewhere deep inside to capture the hearts and anything else I want from nearly any girl I want. It's an empowering feeling, and the journey has just begun.
You'd be shocked,as long as you are a man about it you can get away with it. Back straight,look well groomed and don't stutter.stinkyape said:Do not tell her you think she's good looking straight away like that. That sh1t never works. You should know that
Imagine this if you will,you just chilling minding your own business and this hb(decent looking) approaches you, "Hey,your pretty damn hot,what your name?". Now don't tell me you wouldn't be willing to talk to her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I thought about that. She sits in the front,I mean literally right in front of the teacher. I enjoy reading my Porsche magazines in the back of the class w/o the teacher saying anything and I would like to keep it that way!Obsidian said:
Fair enough. Admittedly I've never tried outright telling a girl "I think you are hot" upfront - I've just read that it doesn't work, and taken it at face valueblinkwatt said:
...Perhaps it's because I'm spectacularly ugly
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.