"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dinner with the deans

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I'm in college and my dorm house is having a "dinner with the deans" night where we're supposed to dress formal and eat and meet the deans or whatever. I don't know HOW this will help me but I'm sure having connections and making a good impression can help you somehow...anyways, I was just wondering if you guys had any tips or anything like that. What would you do
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Suicide

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We did that at my school. I made sure to get the seat right next to the head honcho. I made an effort to know about him before hand and ask questions about him. When he got up, I stole his chocolate cake.
 

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cool thanks guys. ima try to keep those things in mind
 
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