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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm goin on a 2nd date with a girl tom night to see the tree in ny. Should i suggest dinner too? Or just da tree and hot chocalate that sort of sh*t. What do u think?
I mean obviously if its early we both gotta eat eventually so then its a no brainer. But if i tell her ill pick her up at 8:30, should i take her for dinner? I dunno if your a girl and u get outta work at 8, would u rather grab a bite at home quick before the dude comes, or would u rather eat with him? If she hasnt eaten then again obviosuly i know we gotta eat cuz were humans and humans gotta eat at some pt.

I dunno i always feel like i might be getitng too formal if we do dinner early on like on a 2nd or 3rd date. What i usually do is ask her to coffee or drinks on the first date, then on the 2nd suggest dinner. But since this is a thing like seein the tree (which she was so exicted about when i asked her) i dunno if dinner is even necessary. i dont mind spending the money, or any of that stuff, i just wanna know it its playign my cards wrong here.

What do u guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Depends on how well you two "connected" on the last date. If you both had a good time, and she is looking forward to go on a second date, then don't be afraid to take her out to dinner. It is never too early for a "dinner date", if the girl is interested, she'll go, you just have to lead the way.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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IceCream said:
Depends on how well you two "connected" on the last date. If you both had a good time, and she is looking forward to go on a second date, then don't be afraid to take her out to dinner. It is never too early for a "dinner date", if the girl is interested, she'll go, you just have to lead the way.
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If the girl want to be fed, she'll go no matter whether she's interested or not.
 
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IceCream said:
Depends on how well you two "connected" on the last date. If you both had a good time, and she is looking forward to go on a second date, then don't be afraid to take her out to dinner. It is never too early for a "dinner date", if the girl is interested, she'll go, you just have to lead the way.
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Agree. If first date was clear cut and good. Dinner is a nice idea.
 
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