Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

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DJinTraining06

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I'm goin on a 2nd date with a girl tom night to see the tree in ny. Should i suggest dinner too? Or just da tree and hot chocalate that sort of sh*t. What do u think?
I mean obviously if its early we both gotta eat eventually so then its a no brainer. But if i tell her ill pick her up at 8:30, should i take her for dinner? I dunno if your a girl and u get outta work at 8, would u rather grab a bite at home quick before the dude comes, or would u rather eat with him? If she hasnt eaten then again obviosuly i know we gotta eat cuz were humans and humans gotta eat at some pt.

I dunno i always feel like i might be getitng too formal if we do dinner early on like on a 2nd or 3rd date. What i usually do is ask her to coffee or drinks on the first date, then on the 2nd suggest dinner. But since this is a thing like seein the tree (which she was so exicted about when i asked her) i dunno if dinner is even necessary. i dont mind spending the money, or any of that stuff, i just wanna know it its playign my cards wrong here.

What do u guys think?
 

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Depends on how well you two "connected" on the last date. If you both had a good time, and she is looking forward to go on a second date, then don't be afraid to take her out to dinner. It is never too early for a "dinner date", if the girl is interested, she'll go, you just have to lead the way.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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IceCream said:
Depends on how well you two "connected" on the last date. If you both had a good time, and she is looking forward to go on a second date, then don't be afraid to take her out to dinner. It is never too early for a "dinner date", if the girl is interested, she'll go, you just have to lead the way.
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If the girl want to be fed, she'll go no matter whether she's interested or not.
 
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IceCream said:
Depends on how well you two "connected" on the last date. If you both had a good time, and she is looking forward to go on a second date, then don't be afraid to take her out to dinner. It is never too early for a "dinner date", if the girl is interested, she'll go, you just have to lead the way.
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Agree. If first date was clear cut and good. Dinner is a nice idea.
 
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