i just got a date with this girl tonight and instead of going out to eat, since i just got my own house i told her i would make dinner. i can cook pretty much anything. does anyone have any suggestions on what to make or any other tips that might come in handy for the date?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dinner Date Tonight - Need Advice
- Thread starter bman
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
CyranoDeBergerac
Master Don Juan
If you've already gotten locked in to entertaining, or thought that now might be a good chance to impress her with your culinary prowess, confirm her likes/dislikes and allergies and stay away from easy dishes like pasta. Another nice tip would be to favor several lighter course instead of one large single course. It adds variety,, and acts as a greater showcase to your talents. Any idiot with a stove can make a pile of spaghetti and prego, it takes a true stud to whip up baby eggplant apertifs and killer pesto with five cheese vegetarian lasagna and a date custard. Also keep in mind, if you screw up, laugh it off and have the number to a good chinese place handy.
I recommend the Chef-Boy-ar-dee Spagetti-O's...Delightful flavor with a rich texture and sauce....For a special spin and flair for presentation, use a can opener to remove half the lid, and point it up in the air
For the coup d'etat, use a bunsen burner infront of her to cook the food while in the decorative display....Just like a japanese steakhouse......
Serve with a box of wine, or make "mixed drinks" with nippers that mysteriously appear out of random pockets in your tattered coat....
Goodluck
For the coup d'etat, use a bunsen burner infront of her to cook the food while in the decorative display....Just like a japanese steakhouse......
Serve with a box of wine, or make "mixed drinks" with nippers that mysteriously appear out of random pockets in your tattered coat....
Goodluck
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
CyranoDeBergerac
Master Don Juan
*tries to stop laughing* Touche Nuggs.
I geuss my question is, why take her out afterwards and kill the mood you're cultivating when you make her dinner?
I geuss my question is, why take her out afterwards and kill the mood you're cultivating when you make her dinner?