“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dinner Date Tonight - Need Advice

bman

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i just got a date with this girl tonight and instead of going out to eat, since i just got my own house i told her i would make dinner. i can cook pretty much anything. does anyone have any suggestions on what to make or any other tips that might come in handy for the date?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NatureGuy

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I would take her out to a restaurant, not
cook at home.
 

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If you've already gotten locked in to entertaining, or thought that now might be a good chance to impress her with your culinary prowess, confirm her likes/dislikes and allergies and stay away from easy dishes like pasta. Another nice tip would be to favor several lighter course instead of one large single course. It adds variety,, and acts as a greater showcase to your talents. Any idiot with a stove can make a pile of spaghetti and prego, it takes a true stud to whip up baby eggplant apertifs and killer pesto with five cheese vegetarian lasagna and a date custard. Also keep in mind, if you screw up, laugh it off and have the number to a good chinese place handy.
 

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she said she likes italian. i was going to eat here then take her to a pool place and play pool for a little bit.
 

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I recommend the Chef-Boy-ar-dee Spagetti-O's...Delightful flavor with a rich texture and sauce....For a special spin and flair for presentation, use a can opener to remove half the lid, and point it up in the air


For the coup d'etat, use a bunsen burner infront of her to cook the food while in the decorative display....Just like a japanese steakhouse......


Serve with a box of wine, or make "mixed drinks" with nippers that mysteriously appear out of random pockets in your tattered coat....


Goodluck
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bman

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thanks dank, thats what i was planning on.
 

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*tries to stop laughing* Touche Nuggs.

I geuss my question is, why take her out afterwards and kill the mood you're cultivating when you make her dinner?
 

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Having her come to your place is money by the way...Save $$$ on going out, can get some bottles of red wine, have a nice meal, and gosh darn it, you already at your place for the "afterparty"
 
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