"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dilemma

No_Sleep

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Alright heres my problem: I have been DJing this girl in one of my classes for a week or so now i got her number today and she wants to do sumthing 2nite or tommorow (no school cause of hurricane frances). I also found out that her brother (who is 9th grade, im in 10th) is dating my step-sister already. so would it be wierd to go out with my step-sisters boyfriends sister? (sorry if it doesnt make sense)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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splinterkb

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Quit making excuses, and go hang out with her and lay on the mack. Easy as that.
 

JSH

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Go out anyway, it doesnt matter
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Porky

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Originally posted by Sterling the Runner
Pick on him and look dominant
Or he could not be a complete ******* for no reason whatsoever.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by splinterkb
Quit making excuses, and go hang out with her and lay on the mack. Easy as that.
here here
 
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