Alright heres my problem: I have been DJing this girl in one of my classes for a week or so now i got her number today and she wants to do sumthing 2nite or tommorow (no school cause of hurricane frances). I also found out that her brother (who is 9th grade, im in 10th) is dating my step-sister already. so would it be wierd to go out with my step-sisters boyfriends sister? (sorry if it doesnt make sense)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dilemma
- Thread starter No_Sleep
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NEWBIE101
Senior Don Juan
No
Go hang out with her and get some.
Go hang out with her and get some.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Quit making excuses, and go hang out with her and lay on the mack. Easy as that.
Sterling the Runner
Don Juan
Pick on him and look dominant
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Stratocaster
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That will probably ease the tension between you two. Go for it.