Hamurabimbi
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My GF suffered a legit injury which will keep us from doing the deed for 2-3 months. My Zoomer ex- came back in to my life and wants me to rail her. So tempted. Thoughts?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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The Duke
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I was having sechs 2weeks after a fractured hip and multiple other injuries. So unless you broke her vagina and it needs to heal I think you'll be fine in 3wks or less. And I'm sure her mouth will still work.
Do like howiestern is suggesting. Exes belong in the trash.
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This is a personal choice. If you’ve stepped out on a GF before and felt okay with it, then it’s up to you.
Many years ago, I did and didn’t feel okay with it (after the fact.)
There’s always middle ground:
your girlfriend can ‘give you a hand’ … while you are fantasizing about the other gal.
Many years ago, I did and didn’t feel okay with it (after the fact.)
There’s always middle ground:
your girlfriend can ‘give you a hand’ … while you are fantasizing about the other gal.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
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Hamurabimbi
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She’s been trying to get back for almost 2 years. I have positive feelings for her.
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I wouldn't care about any of the girls but the integrity of my word.
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I see nothing morally wrong with railing other chicks while in an LTR. As men we are not biologically monogamous.
OP, where this could get sticky is that exes there is history there beyond just physical. She may want to get back. Is she aware that you are in a relationship?
OP, where this could get sticky is that exes there is history there beyond just physical. She may want to get back. Is she aware that you are in a relationship?
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So she isn't much of a GF then right?
Hamurabimbi
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She is. But it’s tempting.
however, I’ll probably resist.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Everyone has their own morality man...
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If they are a Post-Modernist....
For a Non-Post-Modernist morality exist "outside" of the person and superceeds the individual.
But in this specific case my comment implies that she doesn't really mean much to him if he is openly is considering cheating on her as if nothing is wrong with doing so. Her viewpoint means nothing to him,...but if the tables were turned and she was considering banging a another guy because he had a leg injury and wasn't available,...he would probably be here complaining about her being so untrustworthy, opportunistic, and being a self-centered sl*tty b*tch.
Hamurabimbi
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I’ll probably just follow BS’s advice: