"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dilemma?

Jumpman23

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So this girl I am interested in works currently pt as a host at a restaurant. We have hung out before together. She says, " You should come by, we have great food etc." The question for me is who do I go with to this casual upscale restaurant. To be honest, I don't want to go w/ a buddy of mine out to dinner, or a family member. The question is who should I go with. But tonight I am supposed to meet up w/ a female friend for drinks at a restaurant/bar. So the question is, would it be okay for me to go w/ a female friend to the restaurant where the girl I am interested in works? I don't want her (hostess at the restaurant) to get the wrong idea, b/c I am interested in her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It would be perfectly fine. Don't worry about her getting the wrong idea. Just ask her out for something later. If she wants to clear it up, she'll ask.

Of course, I don't see why you have to go if you don't feel like it. Just ask her to do something else. I don't imagine it's very crucial that you see her at work.
 

Jumpman23

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Phyzzle said:
It would be perfectly fine. Don't worry about her getting the wrong idea. Just ask her out for something later. If she wants to clear it up, she'll ask.

Of course, I don't see why you have to go if you don't feel like it. Just ask her to do something else. I don't imagine it's very crucial that you see her at work.
thats true, I am going to go someplace else, I will call l her and she if she can meet up after work, hopefully she will be able to go.
 
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