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Dilemma?

Jumpman23

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So this girl I am interested in works currently pt as a host at a restaurant. We have hung out before together. She says, " You should come by, we have great food etc." The question for me is who do I go with to this casual upscale restaurant. To be honest, I don't want to go w/ a buddy of mine out to dinner, or a family member. The question is who should I go with. But tonight I am supposed to meet up w/ a female friend for drinks at a restaurant/bar. So the question is, would it be okay for me to go w/ a female friend to the restaurant where the girl I am interested in works? I don't want her (hostess at the restaurant) to get the wrong idea, b/c I am interested in her.
 

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It would be perfectly fine. Don't worry about her getting the wrong idea. Just ask her out for something later. If she wants to clear it up, she'll ask.

Of course, I don't see why you have to go if you don't feel like it. Just ask her to do something else. I don't imagine it's very crucial that you see her at work.
 

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Phyzzle said:
It would be perfectly fine. Don't worry about her getting the wrong idea. Just ask her out for something later. If she wants to clear it up, she'll ask.

Of course, I don't see why you have to go if you don't feel like it. Just ask her to do something else. I don't imagine it's very crucial that you see her at work.
thats true, I am going to go someplace else, I will call l her and she if she can meet up after work, hopefully she will be able to go.
 
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