"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dilated Pupils

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Okay, so this is sort of a discussion/question sorta thing.

Just about an hour ago I was with this girl at her house, and we were on her bed, and I had played some guitar for her. Throughout the night, I had kissed her on the cheek a few times, and once a small kiss on the lips.

Pretty quickly afterwards I noticed that her pupils had gotten very large, enough to the point where I commented on it.

I've heard of dilated pupils having to do with attraction, but I've never known if it was true or not. Do you guys think it is?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jesus man you were in her bed. who gives a **** what her eyes were doing
 
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I knew there would be a response like that. I'm not asking for advice, but really just a question. For future reference as well.
 
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When a person's pupils get larger, it means they wants to see more of you. When they get smaller, it means they want to see less of you.

Now, drugs could be a factor, as could low lighting, but chances are she was highly attracted if her "eyes were like saucers".
 
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Peoples pupils dilate when they see something they like.. Or as the above poster stated, drugs and lighting can have an effect on them.

But seriously.. This isn't a romance movie, next time you're in bed together put your guitar down and be more aggressive!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When a girl "gives you the eye" - you subconsciously observed her pupils getting larger instantly when she looked at you.

When a girl "gives you a dirty look" - you subconsciously observed her pupils getting smaller instantly when she looked at you.
 
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Things werent really right to get too intimate. I'm just 16, no car, and we werent alone the whole day. I was just about on my way out when all this was happening. probably in the course of 30 to 45 minutes.

Anyways, thank you guys for all that, it's reallt interesting as well as reassuring :)

and whats an IOI?
 
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