"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dilated Pupils

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Okay, so this is sort of a discussion/question sorta thing.

Just about an hour ago I was with this girl at her house, and we were on her bed, and I had played some guitar for her. Throughout the night, I had kissed her on the cheek a few times, and once a small kiss on the lips.

Pretty quickly afterwards I noticed that her pupils had gotten very large, enough to the point where I commented on it.

I've heard of dilated pupils having to do with attraction, but I've never known if it was true or not. Do you guys think it is?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jesus man you were in her bed. who gives a **** what her eyes were doing
 
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I knew there would be a response like that. I'm not asking for advice, but really just a question. For future reference as well.
 
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When a person's pupils get larger, it means they wants to see more of you. When they get smaller, it means they want to see less of you.

Now, drugs could be a factor, as could low lighting, but chances are she was highly attracted if her "eyes were like saucers".
 
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Peoples pupils dilate when they see something they like.. Or as the above poster stated, drugs and lighting can have an effect on them.

But seriously.. This isn't a romance movie, next time you're in bed together put your guitar down and be more aggressive!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When a girl "gives you the eye" - you subconsciously observed her pupils getting larger instantly when she looked at you.

When a girl "gives you a dirty look" - you subconsciously observed her pupils getting smaller instantly when she looked at you.
 
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Things werent really right to get too intimate. I'm just 16, no car, and we werent alone the whole day. I was just about on my way out when all this was happening. probably in the course of 30 to 45 minutes.

Anyways, thank you guys for all that, it's reallt interesting as well as reassuring :)

and whats an IOI?
 
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