It does'nt matter which you say, shes still not gonna tell you.
No but seriously just say what you're more comfortable with, shes not going to care how you ask lol. Don't worry about "setting off the red flags and making it sound like a pick-up".
I've been away from this site for over a year, just came back tonight, and i've learnt so much just from experience. One major thing i've realised is that her giving you her number is not the same as her liking you. I used to go for the number after barely any conversation at all, an sometimes i'd get the number but it wouldn't lead to anything. You should aim to have a decent conversation with the girl and have a laugh with her before you ask for her number. It's not about 'getting her number cus then i'll be in
' its about having a fun conversation with her and seeing what happens.
I've also learnt not to expect success everytime at all, it really is more like every 1 in 4/5 girls you meet that will like you.
Salmence seems to have cracked it.