"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've been having difficulties moving things along. For the past 2 months of school, I've gotten 20 numbers. Now, heres the thing, once I get the number - I don't have an urge to call the girl. I know I'm not scared to actually call them, and talk to them on the phone. But, I have no idea how to proceed onto the next stage.

I would figure, for most guys, once you get the number, isn't that when the easy part starts? I find I am most scared and fearful of the things that I most want to do with a girl(kiss, make-out, etc). I just can't bring myself to do things that are more sexual. I would figure all a guy wants to do is **** a really hott girl, but, when it comes down to it, why is there such anxiety/fear/nervousness? I mean, I know after the fact I will have really enjoyed it, but I just can't bring myself to call these girls up and just say, "hey, lets chill at my place later today" or "hey, lets go do something".

I even think things like, "I could kiss this girl right now, shes into me", but I don't do it, and I don't go for it. Maybe I'm not a sexual being, but when I'm away from girls that's what my minds on. When I am with them, it just never really enters my mind.

Is this the case for anyone else?

Any input on the situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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getting the number is the hard part
once you get the number just play cool
like you dont like her so much it will drive her crazy
then she wil be calling you. just make shure to call her
like 4 days after you get the number.
(so you give the effect that you dont care)
besides you should not have that much trouble
scince you have 20 numbers
did you call any of them yet??
 
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Yeah I've called a couple, but I get that anxiety of not knowing what to do next.

It's not really how I act around them, I just don't have the urge to advance the relationship, because I don't know how to move it in that direction.
 
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thats interesting but i can understand that
i have a problem just kissing a girl to it feels weird
the only way i can do it is to look in
there eyes until they know what you want.
Try look for a girl that seems nervous of moving on to
or just try somthing random instead of a movie
try taking her to dinner in a nice place with waiters
she would never expect that. r just suck it up and go for it
 
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