Difficult to keep their attention

[CjXo]

I’m 25 years old Sudanese immigrant. I don’t have any problem attracting 5’s & 6’s. This 23 year old Indian chick from work invited me straight to her apartment last Friday 20 minutes after saying “hi” to her. My English is terrible so it can’t be my game. **** is too easy. Idk how dudes struggling out here tbh. Just say hi bro lol.

Here’s the catch tho, its very difficult for me to keep their attention past 6-8 months. Even if I only date my own ethnicity. Especially, with the younger crowd. I noticed they have so much they are watching, people and their lives that they’re following and etc.
Even the younger dudes who are in relationships seem like they’re constantly worried their girl will float off at any moment. Few of them told that it’s another full job within itself to keep the attraction level up.

Any tips how to combat that? It’s only been 3 years and I feel like I’m getting burnt out already.

 

[johnrambo]

I’m 25 years old Sudanese immigrant.

You are an immigrant to which country? India?

 

[CjXo]

You are an immigrant to which country? Indias?

USA

 

[johnrambo]

Maintaining mystery is good way to maintain interest.

 

[CjXo]

This is not an attack on you but you maybe be either boring or too caotic to invest LTR in.

definitely the first one. Hence why I stick with home bodies. I’m still out of the house 7 days a week tho. So I can’t be that boring.
I’m starting to believe Social media is making women even more neurotic and a shorter attention span than a goldfish.

 

[CjXo]

Maintaining mystery is good way to maintain interest.

Any tips/examples??