"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Different race dating with different race

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I'm not trying to be racist here but i was wondering if anybody here is Asian, White, etc. and has dated girls or women who are a different race from you.

example: Let's say you are Asian, have you been out with a hispanic girl or woman? Or let's say you are White (i sound like i am being racist for some reason but i'm not, sorry if i am), have you dated Asians or Hispanics or others?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok, Tactic... What are you up to? What are you planning? What's going on? Who is she? :p
 

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Thanks for the example...cleared it all up.:rolleyes:
 

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im hispanic, and i dated a phillipino chic.... a black chic, white chics......

now whats is your point?????
 

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Hey guys, do you ever go on dates if the sky isn't bright blue!?!?!?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Hey guys, do you ever go on dates if the sky isn't bright blue!?!?!?
Dood, never. Only when its magenta with silverish, tanish, blackish, greenish polka dots.
 

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I'm white and my girlfriend is black.

All this "girls outside your race won't date you!" is bullshit.
 

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Originally posted by Osiris7250
im hispanic, and i dated a phillipino chic.... a black chic, white chics......

now whats is your point?????
^^Smart Ass...!!..:):):):):)..


Nah But Anyway..Your Question Really Depends..

I Know You Should Date Whoever You Want To But Some Girls Are So Stubborn And If They Are Black They Wont Date A White Guy..Or A White Chick Wont Date A Black Guy..So I Mean It Changes With The Person I Guess...


Personally.. I Think If You Wont Go Out With A Different Race Then 1. Thats Bull****, 2. Thats Racist..
 

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I haven't had a chance to date anyone of my race in the last 10 years. I guess I'm just fvcking up the whole system. :D But hey, variety is the spice of life.
 

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All this "girls outside your race won't date you!" is bull****.

Depends SOULY on where you live. Not all women will. There are SOME exceptions. To blame the whole caucasin female race on that is B.S but it does happen.......

Females just like Men have prefrences. What does it matter? Guys do the same thing but it seems if girls have a certain criteria then its wrong...hmmm I smell a double standard. :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I haven't had a chance to date anyone of my race in the last 10 years. I guess I'm just fvcking up the whole system. :D But hey, variety is the spice of life.
LoL..Its Doesnt Really Matter I Think You Should Date Who You Want Regardless But Some People Dont Think That Way..
 

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over the summer i was SOOOO close to getting wtih this gorgeous armenian girl (im white)

as of right now shes the one that got away :-(
 

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Originally posted by JBizzle
Depends SOULY on where you live. Not all women will. There are SOME exceptions. To blame the whole caucasin female race on that is B.S but it does happen.......

Females just like Men have prefrences. What does it matter? Guys do the same thing but it seems if girls have a certain criteria then its wrong...hmmm I smell a double standard. :rolleyes:
There are ALWAYS exceptions. My white friend is married to a black girl. My black friends get both white and black girls and I mean the ones I go to school with here in ALABAMA. Back home in Maryland, I see whites with blacks/asians/ect. and the other way around. I'm as white as you can get (skin color wise) and I date a black girl.

There is no standard, only how well (and also just flat out how) you gain interest.
 

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Im with an asian girl right now and I pretty much dont bring it up, but when she does I always play it off like me being white is an advantage and how she looks cooler hanging with a white guy. Some people act like dating different races is something different or requires different tactics... It doesnt at all. I got my asian girl doing the same stuff that got me my white girls and hispanic girl. A Don Juan does not care, its all in your mind.

Ill try to contribute with some c&f ethnic-based lines/tactics I've used:

In asian accent "young HB do your homework, no talking to white boy. you must do your homework, and play piano, and you can start talking to boys when you are 21"

"They were like, 'waoh that asian girl is hell of cool, shes hanging with that white guy'"

Its not like I memorized them, they just came to my mind on the spot.

In conclusion, people approach this subject like its hard or bad or worse. Thats how an AFC would approach it. A DJ would approach it like a home field advantage.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What about Asian guy and Hispanic girl? Or Hispanic guy with an Asian girl?
 

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pretty much the purpose of these posts is to show that it is much harder for a colored male to get with a white female than vice versa with a white male and colored female. guys think differently from girls and base it on looks. girls base on social bias and other things.
 

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Originally posted by tactic
What about Asian guy and Hispanic girl? Or Hispanic guy with an Asian girl?
Whats your point?? Dont be a punk, just get to your point.
 

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Originally posted by Nivek
pretty much the purpose of these posts is to show that it is much harder for a colored male to get with a white female than vice versa with a white male and colored female. guys think differently from girls and base it on looks. girls base on social bias and other things.
I was referring specifically to tactic's game of 20 questions but thanks anyways.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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