"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BlackDragon

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I have two main personalities. At home Im the happy, playful big brother that tease a lot. At public, Im the strong, silent, shy type that looks serious most of the time. I believe Im not have much success with women becuase of my public personality. Im trying to let my home personality domintate but it's hard. Any help here?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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its b/c your very comfortable with your surroundings and your family at home. At work, your more tense and afraid of what people would think if you started to let loose seeing as though you have already given these people a certain impession of you.

My advice is to just say f*ck it. Just grab your balls, and try teasing and having fun like u do at home, see what happens. You'll be amazed at how easy it becomes once u start doing it.
 
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Yeah, I know what you talking about. I feel comfortable at some public places and my playful persoanlity come out. I believe that school #$@& me up. I was picked on so much for stupid reason its not even funny. And it was the females that gave me the most hell. Wouldn't leave me alone. Anyway, Im slooowly growning some balls and able to be more social with others.
 
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awesmoe stuff blackdragon
just gotta keep workin on it

i read somewhere, posibly the bible, that u can do several mental exercises to help relax urself in a public place. like, you associate a certain action aat home where ur comfortable (such as twiddling ur thumbs) and then repeat that action when ur feeling uncomfortbale. it's supposed to make u feel like ur in ur happy place or osmething
 
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