"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I have two main personalities. At home Im the happy, playful big brother that tease a lot. At public, Im the strong, silent, shy type that looks serious most of the time. I believe Im not have much success with women becuase of my public personality. Im trying to let my home personality domintate but it's hard. Any help here?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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its b/c your very comfortable with your surroundings and your family at home. At work, your more tense and afraid of what people would think if you started to let loose seeing as though you have already given these people a certain impession of you.

My advice is to just say f*ck it. Just grab your balls, and try teasing and having fun like u do at home, see what happens. You'll be amazed at how easy it becomes once u start doing it.
 
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Yeah, I know what you talking about. I feel comfortable at some public places and my playful persoanlity come out. I believe that school #$@& me up. I was picked on so much for stupid reason its not even funny. And it was the females that gave me the most hell. Wouldn't leave me alone. Anyway, Im slooowly growning some balls and able to be more social with others.
 
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awesmoe stuff blackdragon
just gotta keep workin on it

i read somewhere, posibly the bible, that u can do several mental exercises to help relax urself in a public place. like, you associate a certain action aat home where ur comfortable (such as twiddling ur thumbs) and then repeat that action when ur feeling uncomfortbale. it's supposed to make u feel like ur in ur happy place or osmething
 
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