"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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different between UB and HB

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david90

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what can u say to help me get over my fear of approaching HB? I have no problem with HB7 or or 8 but 9 and 10 still give my anxiety.

Isn't a girl just a girl regardless if she is a 7 8 9 or 10?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do what I do -- don't give women the rating of a 9 or 10. Unless you live in LA or something, that is.
 
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One of the guest speakers in David DeAngelo's advanced series had a great idea about this.

He basically claimed that the whole 1-10 system was the worst thing for guys.

He said that what the real system should be is 1 or 0. 1 - she's good enough for you. 0 - she's not.

Maybe that will reframe the situation and change your perspective.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KiInCollege

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I know a HB 9 who is very picky and available. Many of the men she meets is not a DJ and screws up somehow. Since we're kind of friends, sometimes I get to hear about it.

I don't know if she read the rules, but she follows many of the principles. She'll belong to the next DJ she meets, but until then, she's a hot girl who's single. They're out there. If I were not in a LTR and my girl wasn't hotter, she would be mine.

Keep practicing your DJ skills. I like the 1-10 classification, since I don't feel that a 10 is out of my level. Maybe a similar mindset would help you?
 
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Six-String Samurai

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I don't know if the 1 or 0 thing really works for me. I prefer Ladder Theory, which breaks it down into "girls I'd sleep with and admit to it", "girls I'd sleep with and not admit to it", "girls I'd sleep with drunk and admit to it" and "girls I'd sleep with drunk and not admit to it" (anything else not even being on the ladder).

And PeeGee... I do live in L.A. :D D'OH!!!
 
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i like 1 or 0 too!
otherwise we're making things way too complicated for ourselves
 
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Why is it that guys on this board always say HB7-HB10, but never anything lower?

Somehow its as if everyone here lives in a world where 7 is butt ugly and 10 is just average, since every single poster seems to hook up with HB10s every night.


Weird ain't it ;)
 
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IMO attaching a rating system to women assumes that some are better than others, and therefore that some will be "harder to catch" than others. It presupposes that an "HB10" is some sort of rare, heavenly creature (looks-wise) and that "HB7" is an pretty attractive woman, therefore automatically assigning a value to the higher rated women. Doesn't fit well into the true "DJ" mindset.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DD must got it from matrix idea ..

But i really like this idea too .. "the one" or zero ..
 
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