"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You know how some girls will say they want to become good friends with a guy before being in a relationship? While I would not advise going along with that if your the guy, has anyone ever tried this the other way around?

Say you meet a girl for a first date , and at some point you suggest that you want to try becoming good friends before getting intimate with a girl. I think this would trigger certain thoughts in her head:

-wow this guy is different than other guys
-hard to get, not immediatly interested in sex with her
-mixed messages

or, on a less desirable note

-weirdo
-her being rejected

Because who has ever heard of a guy saying this? You would need to make sure it comes across different than saying lets just be friends. Also I could only see this working if the girl would be interested in a relationship, rather than a fling.

So, has anyone tried this approach, any constructive thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's better and easier to be freinds with them..it's less bs in the long run.
 
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Right, but the idea is to ultimately be more than friends. This would be a method of creating interest, in exchange for sacrificing the potential for sex in the short term.
 
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