different approach to dating

[semperfkemall]

You know how some girls will say they want to become good friends with a guy before being in a relationship? While I would not advise going along with that if your the guy, has anyone ever tried this the other way around?

Say you meet a girl for a first date , and at some point you suggest that you want to try becoming good friends before getting intimate with a girl. I think this would trigger certain thoughts in her head:

-wow this guy is different than other guys
-hard to get, not immediatly interested in sex with her
-mixed messages

or, on a less desirable note

-weirdo
-her being rejected

Because who has ever heard of a guy saying this? You would need to make sure it comes across different than saying lets just be friends. Also I could only see this working if the girl would be interested in a relationship, rather than a fling.

So, has anyone tried this approach, any constructive thoughts?

 

[Tha Realnezz]

It's better and easier to be freinds with them..it's less bs in the long run.

 

[semperfkemall]

Right, but the idea is to ultimately be more than friends. This would be a method of creating interest, in exchange for sacrificing the potential for sex in the short term.