"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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semperfkemall

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You know how some girls will say they want to become good friends with a guy before being in a relationship? While I would not advise going along with that if your the guy, has anyone ever tried this the other way around?

Say you meet a girl for a first date , and at some point you suggest that you want to try becoming good friends before getting intimate with a girl. I think this would trigger certain thoughts in her head:

-wow this guy is different than other guys
-hard to get, not immediatly interested in sex with her
-mixed messages

or, on a less desirable note

-weirdo
-her being rejected

Because who has ever heard of a guy saying this? You would need to make sure it comes across different than saying lets just be friends. Also I could only see this working if the girl would be interested in a relationship, rather than a fling.

So, has anyone tried this approach, any constructive thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's better and easier to be freinds with them..it's less bs in the long run.
 
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semperfkemall

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Right, but the idea is to ultimately be more than friends. This would be a method of creating interest, in exchange for sacrificing the potential for sex in the short term.
 
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