"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Difference between building rapport and being an Emotional Tampon?

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I'm just wondering if anyone out there can help filter the difference here?

The only reason I ask is that chics live in their drama, so everything they talk about has feelings in it.....How does one draw the line between building rapport and trust.......without becoming an emotional tampon (ET)?

I know some of the obvious crap, like if they talk about a guy, then that's ET material.....

Anyone have any definitions they use to help them make this clear and identify one from the other?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You can draw the line between building an emotional connection and being "one of the girls" by expressing your sexuality to her. It's pretty much that simple.

I would definitely express my sexual intentions with her from the beginning in order to let her know that you're attracted, and not just interested in being a friend. Be sexual, hold her, give her bedroom eyes, and try to kiss her early on. If you don't, she'll probably assume you're either gay, a wuss, or only interested in friendship.
 
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Guess you're one step ahead of me on the girl I'm gaming, lol!
 
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