"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Difference between building rapport and being an Emotional Tampon?

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I'm just wondering if anyone out there can help filter the difference here?

The only reason I ask is that chics live in their drama, so everything they talk about has feelings in it.....How does one draw the line between building rapport and trust.......without becoming an emotional tampon (ET)?

I know some of the obvious crap, like if they talk about a guy, then that's ET material.....

Anyone have any definitions they use to help them make this clear and identify one from the other?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You can draw the line between building an emotional connection and being "one of the girls" by expressing your sexuality to her. It's pretty much that simple.

I would definitely express my sexual intentions with her from the beginning in order to let her know that you're attracted, and not just interested in being a friend. Be sexual, hold her, give her bedroom eyes, and try to kiss her early on. If you don't, she'll probably assume you're either gay, a wuss, or only interested in friendship.
 
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Guess you're one step ahead of me on the girl I'm gaming, lol!
 
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