"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Difference between building rapport and being an Emotional Tampon?

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I'm just wondering if anyone out there can help filter the difference here?

The only reason I ask is that chics live in their drama, so everything they talk about has feelings in it.....How does one draw the line between building rapport and trust.......without becoming an emotional tampon (ET)?

I know some of the obvious crap, like if they talk about a guy, then that's ET material.....

Anyone have any definitions they use to help them make this clear and identify one from the other?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You can draw the line between building an emotional connection and being "one of the girls" by expressing your sexuality to her. It's pretty much that simple.

I would definitely express my sexual intentions with her from the beginning in order to let her know that you're attracted, and not just interested in being a friend. Be sexual, hold her, give her bedroom eyes, and try to kiss her early on. If you don't, she'll probably assume you're either gay, a wuss, or only interested in friendship.
 
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Guess you're one step ahead of me on the girl I'm gaming, lol!
 
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