"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diff between insecure, needy, clingy...

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Insecure: when you dont feel worthy of her, you dont feel you are good enuf for her and your weaknesses you are hiding are bringing down your confidence.


Not insecure: when you have a lack of trust with her or anyone because of childhood abuse, or other circumstances..this means you need to decondition your mind to trust and work on letting the past go..doesnt make you insecure.



Needy: when she controls your emotional state and you react to her. when you need her for your day to be complete. when you feel like ur life means less without her.



not needy: wanting to see her and talk to her, needing her to support you like your male friends and family sypport..wanting sex, attention and affection from her.


clingy: having to spend everyday with her and talk to her 5 times a day.

not clingy: wanting to spend as much free time with her and wanting to talk to her as much as u can allot.



these are general but pretty accurate..dont get confused betweeen the lines..and good luck.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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not needy: wanting to see her and talk to her, needing her to support you like your male friends and family sypport..wanting sex, attention and affection from her.
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Sounds needy
 
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dude you are A FRAUD!

dont post on my shyt..I dont want someone who KBJ;s for life to even try to give advice....

you need help for your addiction Black Italian
 
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UHH im leaving guys.


OH WAIT I MADE ALL THAT UP..AND NOW I CANT LEAVE THIS SITE BECAUSE IT FITS MY EMOTIONAL NEEDS


NINJA OUT!
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
dude you are A FRAUD!

dont post on my shyt..I dont want someone who KBJ;s for life to even try to give advice....

you need help for your addiction Black Italian
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You too again why because mind over matter says im BI now its suddenly true again.

Look at the facts

-I use diffrent words than him
-My IP is diffrent it has been checked two times.
-I dont ask stupid questions or make troll posts
-I dont say i f*cked this girl and that girl
-I somewhat proved im in the army though i am still willing to prove it further........anyone got any questions?
-He has better spelling


The facts against
-Im from the same country
-Paranoid bored people like to point fingers
-Im the same age
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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we knows it you.....why cant you just come clean and be forgiven for it??????
 
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BackToTheMack shouldn't you be out in the garage fixing the DeLorean so you can go back to the future ?

the Doc make that new alternator for you yet ?

wait... it's 1885 and they haven't been invented yet

so where are you and the Doc gunna get parts for the DeLorean so you can get back to your army base in queensland ?

let me guess...

the same place your stories come from

OUT OF YOUR A$$


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 
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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
BackToTheMack shouldn't you be out in the garage fixing the DeLorean so you can go back to the future ?

the Doc make that new alternator for you yet ?

wait... it's 1885 and they haven't been invented yet

so where are you and the Doc gunna get parts for the DeLorean so you can get back to your army base in queensland ?

let me guess...

the same place your stories come from

OUT OF YOUR A$$


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
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Your funny......weres your proof im him? if you dont have it and the admins dont have it the shut the f**k up

answer the f**king question what makes you think im black italian?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyway im goign to be now il probaly make a post sometime next week with a few pics when im back in QLD so you tools can shut the f**k up and be proven wrong.

Bye tools c use next week
 
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