"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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diff between insecure, needy, clingy...

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Insecure: when you dont feel worthy of her, you dont feel you are good enuf for her and your weaknesses you are hiding are bringing down your confidence.


Not insecure: when you have a lack of trust with her or anyone because of childhood abuse, or other circumstances..this means you need to decondition your mind to trust and work on letting the past go..doesnt make you insecure.



Needy: when she controls your emotional state and you react to her. when you need her for your day to be complete. when you feel like ur life means less without her.



not needy: wanting to see her and talk to her, needing her to support you like your male friends and family sypport..wanting sex, attention and affection from her.


clingy: having to spend everyday with her and talk to her 5 times a day.

not clingy: wanting to spend as much free time with her and wanting to talk to her as much as u can allot.



these are general but pretty accurate..dont get confused betweeen the lines..and good luck.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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not needy: wanting to see her and talk to her, needing her to support you like your male friends and family sypport..wanting sex, attention and affection from her.
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Sounds needy
 
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dude you are A FRAUD!

dont post on my shyt..I dont want someone who KBJ;s for life to even try to give advice....

you need help for your addiction Black Italian
 
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UHH im leaving guys.


OH WAIT I MADE ALL THAT UP..AND NOW I CANT LEAVE THIS SITE BECAUSE IT FITS MY EMOTIONAL NEEDS


NINJA OUT!
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
dude you are A FRAUD!

dont post on my shyt..I dont want someone who KBJ;s for life to even try to give advice....

you need help for your addiction Black Italian
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You too again why because mind over matter says im BI now its suddenly true again.

Look at the facts

-I use diffrent words than him
-My IP is diffrent it has been checked two times.
-I dont ask stupid questions or make troll posts
-I dont say i f*cked this girl and that girl
-I somewhat proved im in the army though i am still willing to prove it further........anyone got any questions?
-He has better spelling


The facts against
-Im from the same country
-Paranoid bored people like to point fingers
-Im the same age
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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we knows it you.....why cant you just come clean and be forgiven for it??????
 
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BackToTheMack shouldn't you be out in the garage fixing the DeLorean so you can go back to the future ?

the Doc make that new alternator for you yet ?

wait... it's 1885 and they haven't been invented yet

so where are you and the Doc gunna get parts for the DeLorean so you can get back to your army base in queensland ?

let me guess...

the same place your stories come from

OUT OF YOUR A$$


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 
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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
BackToTheMack shouldn't you be out in the garage fixing the DeLorean so you can go back to the future ?

the Doc make that new alternator for you yet ?

wait... it's 1885 and they haven't been invented yet

so where are you and the Doc gunna get parts for the DeLorean so you can get back to your army base in queensland ?

let me guess...

the same place your stories come from

OUT OF YOUR A$$


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
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Your funny......weres your proof im him? if you dont have it and the admins dont have it the shut the f**k up

answer the f**king question what makes you think im black italian?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anyway im goign to be now il probaly make a post sometime next week with a few pics when im back in QLD so you tools can shut the f**k up and be proven wrong.

Bye tools c use next week
 
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