"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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diff between insecure, needy, clingy...

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Insecure: when you dont feel worthy of her, you dont feel you are good enuf for her and your weaknesses you are hiding are bringing down your confidence.


Not insecure: when you have a lack of trust with her or anyone because of childhood abuse, or other circumstances..this means you need to decondition your mind to trust and work on letting the past go..doesnt make you insecure.



Needy: when she controls your emotional state and you react to her. when you need her for your day to be complete. when you feel like ur life means less without her.



not needy: wanting to see her and talk to her, needing her to support you like your male friends and family sypport..wanting sex, attention and affection from her.


clingy: having to spend everyday with her and talk to her 5 times a day.

not clingy: wanting to spend as much free time with her and wanting to talk to her as much as u can allot.



these are general but pretty accurate..dont get confused betweeen the lines..and good luck.
and anyone add to this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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not needy: wanting to see her and talk to her, needing her to support you like your male friends and family sypport..wanting sex, attention and affection from her.
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Sounds needy
 
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dude you are A FRAUD!

dont post on my shyt..I dont want someone who KBJ;s for life to even try to give advice....

you need help for your addiction Black Italian
 
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UHH im leaving guys.


OH WAIT I MADE ALL THAT UP..AND NOW I CANT LEAVE THIS SITE BECAUSE IT FITS MY EMOTIONAL NEEDS


NINJA OUT!
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
dude you are A FRAUD!

dont post on my shyt..I dont want someone who KBJ;s for life to even try to give advice....

you need help for your addiction Black Italian
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You too again why because mind over matter says im BI now its suddenly true again.

Look at the facts

-I use diffrent words than him
-My IP is diffrent it has been checked two times.
-I dont ask stupid questions or make troll posts
-I dont say i f*cked this girl and that girl
-I somewhat proved im in the army though i am still willing to prove it further........anyone got any questions?
-He has better spelling


The facts against
-Im from the same country
-Paranoid bored people like to point fingers
-Im the same age
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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we knows it you.....why cant you just come clean and be forgiven for it??????
 
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BackToTheMack shouldn't you be out in the garage fixing the DeLorean so you can go back to the future ?

the Doc make that new alternator for you yet ?

wait... it's 1885 and they haven't been invented yet

so where are you and the Doc gunna get parts for the DeLorean so you can get back to your army base in queensland ?

let me guess...

the same place your stories come from

OUT OF YOUR A$$


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 
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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
BackToTheMack shouldn't you be out in the garage fixing the DeLorean so you can go back to the future ?

the Doc make that new alternator for you yet ?

wait... it's 1885 and they haven't been invented yet

so where are you and the Doc gunna get parts for the DeLorean so you can get back to your army base in queensland ?

let me guess...

the same place your stories come from

OUT OF YOUR A$$


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
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Your funny......weres your proof im him? if you dont have it and the admins dont have it the shut the f**k up

answer the f**king question what makes you think im black italian?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyway im goign to be now il probaly make a post sometime next week with a few pics when im back in QLD so you tools can shut the f**k up and be proven wrong.

Bye tools c use next week
 
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