"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Diet advice

Matt Rogers

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I am aiming to gain some more weight (I am 6 foot and 180lbs, and want to get up to a solid 190lbs by the end of this year)
Unfortunately I cannot handle milk which I always used to use for gaining as it messed up my complexion. As I am a busy man I also do not have too much time for cooking and cannot afford to eat out often.

Can anyone recommend some good snacks and meals which are high in calories and protein?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Right now I'm eating sheppards pie and vege's. mmmmm.

Listen, it's more about the timing of your food than anything else. I could eat a huge cake and still not gain fat. I could do it everyday. Why? Cause I'd time it so that it's before a heavy workout/long distance run.
 

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A big factor in the reason for being able to eat "a big cake" as you say, is because you are only 18.... your metabolisim is alot faster then of those who are only 2 years older than you.

Time will tell DJB.. just remember.. hehe.. enjoy all those goodies now... coz, in years to come.. you will be able to enjoy less, and less.... it is our destiny lol
 

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Alright, not a huge cake, but if it's a home-made cake with just a fair amount of sugar - you'd burn off a hell of a lot of sugar during your rush, which means it wont get stored as fat. Whereas if you had that cake before bed, you'd store a lot more as fat.

and you know what? now you've mentioned that, I think I'll have my cheat day today... mmmmm.... a nice big plate of lamb madras, onion bahji's, naan bread.... MMM :D
 

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Originally posted by DJBen
Alright, not a huge cake, but if it's a home-made cake with just a fair amount of sugar - you'd burn off a hell of a lot of sugar during your rush, which means it wont get stored as fat. Whereas if you had that cake before bed, you'd store a lot more as fat.

and you know what? now you've mentioned that, I think I'll have my cheat day today... mmmmm.... a nice big plate of lamb madras, onion bahji's, naan bread.... MMM :D
mmmmmmm cheaaattt daysss!! love em hahaha
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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